Somebody PLEASE lead me to the nearst brick wall!

[LadySaphira]

Have you ever been so angry, frustrated, and irritated by someone  that you just want to bang your head against the nearest large, hard, immovable object until you lose consciousness? I swear my hubby was PURPOSLY trying to give me a migraine headache this morning.

We live i Western NY, we have for most of our lives. We get snow!! Sometmes, we get LOTS of snow, I'm not crazy about snow but hey, you have to deal with it.  My hubby KNEW we were supposed to take our DD to Buffalo today to get an MRI. She has to have a week before she goes to brain tumor clinic EVERY time. Mind you she is doing well, but she still has to have these check ups every 6 months and she has to have them in Buffalo, that is where the nearest specialist are. 

 I wake up at 6:30 am and look out the window...the storm we were expecting has not hit, there is no extra snow on the ground, just the 7 or 8 inches we got Thursday night. The roads aren't in great shape, but drivable if you drive like a human being and not an ass.  I wake the DD up at 7 to take a shower and let hubby sleep until 7:30. She makes him a quick breakfast of scrambled eggs,( he had 3 teeth pulled Thursday and can only eat soft foods) Immediately he starts whining and moaning about driving all the way to Buffalo, (about a 2 hr drive)  and how it is probably really bad out that way and we are all going to die because we will wreck. On and on and on he goes, won't shut up for a freakin minute. The same words over and over again. Finally I just told him to forget it, I was not going to listen to his BS all the way up there and all the way back. We did actually make it into the car and up the road 4 blocks before I just couldn't take it anymore. I so want to choke at this point.

We get back to the house and he is STILL going on and on about how terrible the roads are and such. I just rolled my eyes and trying to figure out a way to either shut him up or disappear so I didn't have to hear it anymore. He THEN had the nerve to tell me " Your going to be pissy about this all day aren't you?"  WHAT?!!! That blew it, I looked at him and said "Listen, IDK what your problem is, but your being a real asshole and you need to knock it the hell off. I haven't said ONE damn word about not going  other than to tell you I was not going to listen to you piss and moan all the way up there" (And I hadn't either up to that point, I was TRYING to control my temper)

UGH why are men such IDIOTS sometimes?! Now I have to try and reschedual her MRI for Thursday evening, the ONLY day off I have in time for her to get the MRI and so all her BT clinic doctors (she sees 4 of them) have time to read the damn thing. It has to be in the evening because hubby works during the day and I never learned how to drive due to my narcolepsy.

If anyone needs me, I'll be the lady in the corner of the padded cell wearing a straight jacket, banging her head against the wall, and drooling on herself all while muttering under her breath.

[singedwingangel]

Jan. 10, 2009 at 12:49 PM

OHH seee I would not have held my tongue that long. After all this is for the health of your DAUGHTER. Suck it up and be a man . i woulda offered him a sugar boob lol that is what my memaw would do when someone was whining. She would say pooor babyyy does it wanna nurse on a sugar boob adn get a diaper too?? Bet that woulda shut him up.

[LadySaphira]

Jan. 10, 2009 at 1:20 PM

LOL! h With my luck he would say yes, and think I was offering him some fun.

(Original Poster)

[ilovematteo170]

Jan. 10, 2009 at 1:51 PM

LMAO off  Lisa at your comment about the "fun". totally  something my DH would do!! As far as men being stupid,  someone here once told me its just in their DNA!! LMAO!!!  Hang in there girl, we all feel your pain. I hope A is doing okay and keep me posted on whats going on. Praying for you all!!!! much love~t

[DrewsMom0720]

Jan. 10, 2009 at 6:36 PM

I agree men are stupid and idiotic sometimes!! I'm not married so I dont have a husband to bash on... but I do have a baby daddy I can bash... I'm just kidding...

I'm not sure I would have kept my mouth shut as long as you did... I probably would have stuffed a sock in his mouth just so he would be quiet...

I have earplugs if you should need some... and I think you are in the padded cell next to mine... because I've been in the looney bin for awhile now... and they just don't seem to be letting me go anytime soon... LOL