The Love Dare---Day 5 (Love is not rude)

[Armyof4nProud]

Ask your spouse to tell you three things that cause him to be uncomfortable or irritated with you.  You must do so without attacking or justifying your behavior.  This is from their perspective only.

[jennalms]

Jan. 13, 2009 at 1:24 PM

lol i can do this without asking shawn

i can talk way tooooo much

i forget his napkin when i pack his lunch 99% of the time

i hate doing the dishes so i always leave them in the sink for shawn

[Armyof4nProud]

Jan. 14, 2009 at 12:19 PM

this one took us a few days to get done...like 3 to be exact!  He didnt want to tell me 3 negatives, but after a while he gave in and told me what they were.  They did hurt to hear them but I didnt justify why he felt that way or why I was that way.  I just let him tell me!

(Original Poster)