God knows you better than you know yourself.  And, he knows what's best for you too!  I am sure of this. 

When I was pregnant with my third child, I had some genetic testing done because at the age of 35, I was considered an "aged mother"!  I didn't however, do an amnio; that was too scary for me, the prospect of miscarrying my baby. 

So, with everything looking great on all of the other tests (1 in 3800 for Down syndrome), I was blissfully awaiting my final baby's arrival. 

It wasn't an easy pregnancy.  No morning sickness, but at 25 weeks, I went into premature labor.  Thank God they were able to stop it.  With the help of medication and 10 weeks of bedrest, Alex was born at a safe 35.5 weeks gestation.  The night he was born, the neonatologist delivered the news that she believed Alex had Down syndrome. 

         

                     (Alex at 2 days old - coming home!!)

I Knew immediately that God and Alex had kept a secret, to spare me the worry I would have undoubtedly put myself through for months. 

So instead, as I held my precious baby and looked into his adorable face, I fell head over heals in love with him, and I knew everything would be just fine! 

          

(Alex at one month - so alert, he's already trying to get the camera!)

 I really didn't know a whole lot about Down syndrome at that moment, or what it would mean to my family. I didn't know about a lot of the ways it would affect Alex's health or his development.  I also had absolutely no idea just how much God blessed me that wonderful day!          

            

                                                 (Alex at 4 months - big smiles!)

I mean, I knew I had been blessed with a beautiful baby, but I had no idea what joy he would bring to me and our entire family. 

     

             (Alex at 14 months - even bigger smiles!)

I had no idea that I had been one of the chosen few, blessed with one of God's own.

         

    (Alex's First Buddy Walk - just 5 days after his heart repair!)

Alex is now 3 1/2 years old.  He is finally becoming a healthy little boy, after years of struggles with heart and lung issues.  Throughout his medical procedures and hospitalizations, he has been such a fighter!  As soon as he was feeling better, he would grace everyone with his beautiful smile and contagious belly laughs. 

          

                       (Alex's 3rd Birthday!)

He started school this past September, and absolutely loves it, because Alex loves people.  He is happiest when he is socializing, playing, laughing, and having fun!   At home, he is Mommy's little helper, Daddy's football buddy, Jordan's "baby brother", and Johnny's best friend. 

        

                     (Alex 3 1/2 - still smiling!) 

He brightens our home and makes our family complete.  He is truly a joy in my life.  His hugs and laughter brighten my day -  everyday.  He is the greatest gift and I thank God everyday that he brought him into our lives!

Written by his mom  jjamom

 

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momto...
Jan. 15, 2009 at 9:17 PM

Yes, he's a doll!  Everyone should be so happy.  Thanks for putting a smile on my face!

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ILove...
Jan. 16, 2009 at 1:16 AM

He's absolutely beautiful

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mommy...
Jan. 16, 2009 at 1:18 AM

he is absolutely gorgeous. you are blessed with a wonderful little boy and he was blessed with you as his mom.. God bless

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Deb_J...
Jan. 16, 2009 at 1:27 AM

Please give Alex a big hug for me. He's a sweetie!

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Cutespie
Jan. 16, 2009 at 1:39 AM What a beautiful little boy! You are lucky just like I am with my Violet!

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mumma...
Jan. 16, 2009 at 3:46 AM

you are truly blessed

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shebe...
Jan. 16, 2009 at 7:53 AM

What a great story, and ty for sharing it! These kids really are Angels here on Earth. All are blessed that come into contact with them......HUGS

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mommy...
Jan. 16, 2009 at 7:56 AM

Blessed you are, he will forever hold on to the innocence of the world. Congratualtions, God chose you to care for such a precious gift. You are an amazing momma

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godsp...
Jan. 16, 2009 at 8:01 AM

 Angel 2 WHAT A CUTIE...........BLESS HIS SWEET LITTLE HEART! MANY HUGS TO YOU ALEX!!!







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Mom2kyky
Jan. 16, 2009 at 10:37 AM

Alex is so adorable! God loves us all so much, doesn't He?!

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