The Stranger in our house!

[TessaNoel]

A few years after I was born, my Dad met a stranger who was new to our small Michigan town. From the beginning, Dad was fascinated  with this enchanting newcomer and soon invited him to live with our family. The stranger was quickly accepted and was around from then on.   

As I grew up, I  never questioned his place in my family.  In my young  mind, he had a special niche.  My parents were  complementary instructors: Mom taught me good from evil, and  Dad taught me to obey.  But the stranger...he was our storyteller.  He would keep us spellbound for hours on end with adventures, mysteries and comedies.    

If I wanted to know anything about politics, history or science, he always knew the answers about the past, understood the present and even seemed able to predict the future!  He took my family to the first major league ball game.  He made me laugh, and he made me cry. The stranger never stopped Talking, but Dad didn't seem to mind.   

Sometimes, Mom would get up  quietly while the rest of us were shushing each other to listen to what he had to say, and she would go to the kitchen for peace and quiet. (I wonder now if she ever prayed for the stranger to leave.)
  
Dad ruled our household with certain moral convictions, but the stranger never felt  obligated to honor them. Profanity, for example, was not allowed in our home... Not from us, our friends or any  visitors. Our longtime visitor, however, got away with four-letter words that burned my ears and made my dad squirm  and my mother blush.  My Dad didn't permit the liberal use of alcohol. But the stranger encouraged us to try it on a regular Basis.  He made cigarettes look cool, cigars manly and pipes distinguished.
  
He talked freely (much too freely!) about sex.  His comments were sometimes blatant, sometimes suggestive, and generally  embarrassing.   

I now know that my early concepts about relationships were influenced strongly by the stranger.  Time after time, he opposed the values of my parents, yet he was seldom  rebuked... And NEVER asked to leave.

More than fifty years have passed since the stranger moved in with our family.  He has blended right in and is not nearly as fascinating as he was at first.  Still, if you could walk  into my parents' den today, you would still find him sitting over in his corner, waiting for someone to listen to him talk and watch him draw his pictures.  

His name? . . . . . . . . . 

We just call him 'TV'. 
    
He has a wife now...We  call her 'Computer'. 

(Note: This should be required reading for every household in America!)

[ledwards484]

Jan. 20, 2009 at 11:16 AM

I love that story!  Thanks for sharing it!

[Ottaluna]

Apr. 17, 2009 at 8:59 PM

Very cute!