I don't know what to think ( Another update Feb. 25th)

[thewonderdoll]

Ok so we went to the doctor today and everything seems to be going well. We heard the heartbeat today and that was exciting so our next appointment we will get to have a sonogram. We are sooooo relieved to finally know that the baby is ok. As for the weight gain and nasea not so excited but other than that we can't wait. Thanks so much for everyone with your kind words for us through our troubled times of worry,

 

Ok another update. So I have an appointment on the 12th but so far still no bleeding or cramps or anything like that so I'm hoping that is a good sign. I am just going by my instinct until I go to the doctor that I am about 2 months now so I'm just a few weeks away from being able to hear the heartbeat. So fingers crossed that everything is ok and goes well with the baby and the pregnancy.

 

Ok so an update. Still no word from my doctors so were looking for another one that can actually help. I still have had no bleeding, cramps, or any kind of discharge that would make you think of a miscarraige and I haven't had that since day 1. So right now were just thinking its an early pregnancy and that things have progressed enough to see yet. (Fingers Crossed). So I guess we will see. I just wish I had friends to talk to because it would make it alot easier but all my friends don't have kids or a husband so they are off in single land, lol.

 

Me and my husband have been to the doctor 3 times in the past week and still no one can tell us whats wrong. They say I'm pregnant and my quant levels double but there is no fetal movement. They dont know whether the dates are off or if the baby died. I'm so stressed out because I dont know what to do. All I do is cry. Sometimes I'm fine and other times I'm just a wreck. I really dont know what to do think or say. I'm at a loss for words. I just feel like hiding but i cant because we already have children and we have to still be there for them. But its been really hard on me. My husband has been really supportive and says if it is a miscarraige we will try again but it still hurts. I guess i just needed to vent how I feel.

[eyezofblue76]

Jan. 21, 2009 at 9:00 AM

I'm so sorry to hear that, I had an eptopic pregnancy last year.  noone knew what was wrong with me for a good week or so.  Yes they said I was pregnant after the 3rd day and I was surprised.  But there still was a problem I still had pain and discomfort.  Are you in any pain?  How far along are you?  Good Luck and I wish you the best!

[MommyToSmeech]

Jan. 21, 2009 at 12:41 PM

How far along are they thinking you are?  Maybe you're just not as far along as you thought and it's too early or something?  I hope everything turns out okay for you and you find your answers soon.  Take care.

[Anouck]

Jan. 21, 2009 at 12:45 PM

I'm sorry you have to go through this... I had something similar in November of '07. I was pregnant, my hCG levels were doubling, but they couldn't find anything on an ultrasound. Turns out I had a blighted ovum. Which means the gestational sac developed, but the fetus never did. I ended up miscarrying around 8 weeks.

You didn't say how far along you were, maybe it's just too early for the heartbeat?

Good luck, and take care...