In celebration of my wonderful husband..

[MamaChamp]

My current page is a tribute to the great man I call my better half, my rock, my inspiration. He loves me from minute to minute, hour to hour, day to day, month to month, and will love me all the days of our lives.

I see women on here (CM) that complain about husbands spending too much time on xbox, watching tv, never paying attention to them, watching porn, cheating, and the list goes on. We have had our share of problems and we were even separated at one time, but we got through it all. We communicate, we give, we take, we forgive and we have even began to forget. We work hard because divorce is not an option. We work hard for us, for our child and future children.

My husband is following his dreams in pursuing intellecutal hip hop, he provides for our needs through his 8-5, he's even upgrading by finishing school. And he does all of that for me! He does it for him, but he does it for me too. I mean, he's wonderful and I'm happy to KNOW what I have. I happy to never bash him. I'm blessed.

I love him, and if you're on CM and you can say the same thing, then just LOVE HIM and don't bash him. When you talk bad about him, you talk bad about you because you are ONE!

I love you Champ.

[Queenb03]

Jan. 22, 2009 at 11:41 AM

i love my husband.... he is my friend... and lover... dont discrace him in public or the internet

[nannybopeep]

Jan. 22, 2009 at 11:43 AM

i am happy to say i am not a hubby basher. i love my husbnd. i noticed how lucky i was a long time ago while watching my friends marriges.

[LadySaphira]

Jan. 22, 2009 at 11:45 AM

I did not vote because I do not bash my hubby but there are times I need to vent frustrations about him. My hubby too, is a wonderful man, in fact I just wrote a post myself about how special I think he is but sometimes he annoys me. The best way for ME to deal with it is to write a vent.  The venting relieves stress, and I quickly get over my annoyance or anger and move on.

[CookieMama]

Jan. 22, 2009 at 3:22 PM

I love my man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[sgr123]

Jan. 22, 2009 at 8:32 PM

No husband bashing out of me.  I love and respect my husband for all he is and all he does.  Do I get frustrated with him from time to time?  Of course.  Does that make me love him or respect him any less?  No way. 

It can all be gone in an instant.  We need to value what we have at all times.  If your marriage is so bad that you have to complain, constantly, it may be time to re-evaluate your relationship.

[MissCia]

Jan. 23, 2009 at 3:13 PM

Aww, I just posted something about my fiance, in and 'ode' to him for being so wonderful...because of all the negativity that I have seen about husbands/so/etc on this sight lately. I didn't even see that you posted this.

Good job...we just dont stop to think what we have going good for us anymore.

[LilMsTiff]

Jan. 23, 2009 at 9:41 PM

I agree. There are far too much hubby bashing going on. I love my hubby. When he does get on my nerves the last thing I would do is post it for everyone to read. It would hurt me to find out he posted some horrible things about me for who knows how many people to see. It lacks respect. Love is a choice as much as it is a feeling. Choose carefully. Great post!

[kameka]

Jan. 23, 2009 at 11:24 PM

I occasionally let off steam about my hubs, but mostly I just say how kickass he is :)

[cuppa-java]

Jan. 30, 2009 at 2:49 PM

What a wonderful wonderful post. Sometimes we fail to recognize that the good stuff is right under our noses. Hail to lifting up our men....let me go give mine some suga right now

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[Tx2Step]

Feb. 24, 2009 at 7:31 PM

What an excellent subject!  I love it. ;)  I will be married 20 years this June.  My man is truly my soul mate. I love him from the depths of my heart.  I would never bash him in any way in public or online.  I think that is very rude and a cowards way out.  If people have issues with their mates they should talk it out privately not publicly.     Linda