Ok,. so Hubby and I are still having problems, but the last few days have really been the last straw for me. Between his drinking, our lack of finances, and the fact that he is the single most abbrasive person I know, and I am ready for a meltdown. I have to get up everymorning and get dressed, get the boys dressed, get them to school, get my mom to work, go back home, get the baby, take her to my moms to work and then I get to sit here and hear NO all day. Then I get to pick up the boys, go home, make dinner, do homework and clean up. Get the children bathed, in bed and work on my business proposal for the store I want to open. I then proceed to clean up the house and around 11 I fall into bed and pass out.

   What gets me is how he can be so damn tired and yet he doesn't do a damn thing. I bust my ass on a daily and he usually is either sitting at home or going to his dad's. Hell, I don't even know what he is doing half the time since I am too busy running around and doing things for everyone else. i am just tired

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Jan. 22, 2009 at 11:33 PM

Sounds like you've had just about enough.  I know finances take a big toll on families and when you're doing everything yourself it doesn't help.  I'm here to listen if you ever want to vent!!!  :0)

Annettegood luck

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Jan. 25, 2009 at 4:41 PM

Would be nice to get some flowers and recognition occasionally wouldn't it?

I have the same issues, as you have read. I am always doing things to show how I feel for my DH, but I get little in return cuz he's so busy and tired......



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