Today at 10:30 am I, along with my mother, father, sister, father, and brother-in-law, filed in to a court room.  First up was a child molester who plead guilty.  He got 7yrs.  Next was a man who already had a felony who was arrested with a gun.  He assaulted a police officer.  He got 5yrs.  Finally my husband was brought in.  He was sentenced to 120 months and has to serve 85%.  He has already served 6 months so he has another 8 years to go.  I am devestated.  How can I go on without him?  My daughter will grow up without her father.  She will only know him through visitations.  Where was God?  Nowhere to be found.

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Jan. 23, 2009 at 9:13 PM

Sorry about this. God is there with you. There is always a reason for things to happen. I know thats not what you want to here. I am not sure what happened to cause this. But God is always there maybe things will change or something will happen to change it. God Bless. I hope things work out for you and your family and I will pray for you and your family.

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Jan. 24, 2009 at 9:30 AM

I am so sorry to hear that, he got alot of time I am suprised. Good luck to you guys!

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Jan. 26, 2009 at 3:07 PM

oh no! :( thats just so sad, hang in there, things will slowly get back to normal again. ALl the best to you and Anjali.


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Feb. 14, 2009 at 2:23 AM

My nieghbor had sold methne., got arrested and sent to jail, got out on bail, got pregant, went to rehab and got staight (except for drinking now and then) and had her baby. She wasn't my favorite person but she loved that baby. Anyway she got 8 years and also has to serve 85% and her child was less then a year old. he can now only see her through glass, the father ain't doing anything hardly and the sister of the mother is raising him. From what I know the only thing they crack down harder on then meth is murder. I will say a prayer for him. I know you don't feel like it right now but God is there, if he wasn't maybe he would've even gotten 20 years or something. I will be praying for you 110% !!!


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Mar. 1, 2009 at 4:31 PM

I have been in your situation before when I was with my kids father except the charge was robbery. I know visitation isn't alot but it does help and letters too. Prayer helps a whole lot. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

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