Do you call this harrassment?

[crazycorkymom]

My 16 year old son's ex-girl friend has been send text messages to his now girl friend saying that her new boyfriend wants to be the crap out  of my son. My son has had little to no contact with his ex since she broke up with him almost a year ago for her now boyfriend. The only time he has contact with her is if she says "hi'" to him. My son was at a football game with one of his buddies this past football season and almost got kicked out because this boy started on him. Both my son and his friend said the other boy came up to them. His ex is sending text's to his now gf saying that if they end up at the same fire, they are both firefighters in Mifflin county but with different companies now, her new bf will beat the crap out of my son.

My cousin is captain at te fire company this girl and boy run and my husband said something to him and he said that he could do nothing. I think he could tell them "this is what I have been told and that if this happens this is what is going to happen to you". But my cousin is to much up the chiefs butt, the chiefs step-daughter is my son's ex.

My son belongs to two different fire companies and the 1 gets called down to the area the ex and her new bf run allot. We have told my son's now girlfriend to forward text's so we can show the fire company what is going on.

My son has had NOTHING to do with this boy for over a year when this boy got my son kicked out of the firehouse for a month because the boy was making fun of my younger son. My oldest son was not letting this happen and when I went to the president of the company he said "I'm sorry this is what happened we will deal with the other boy too" They dealt with him just fine he got JR of the year at the Christmas banquet. I guess it is fine with them for a 16 year old to tease and torment a then 9 year old.

I guess what I want to know is what you all think about all of this and how we should handle it.

I am tired as the parent of this happening. I was told that the ex sent the new gf a text this past fire that if my son showed up at this fire the new bf would beat him up. I am tired of wondering what is going to happen to my son and who will stop it. My son is 16 and the other boy will be 18 sometime this year.

Thanks for your help in this matter.

[friendlyvirgo47]

Jan. 24, 2009 at 10:52 AM

i would call the police,or take this out of line harassing bitch to the shrinks office.i was taught that if a boy is not interested in you,get out of his life and stay out.and dont cause trouble.

[friendlyvirgo47]

Jan. 24, 2009 at 10:54 AM

some people have a lot of time on theyre hands to  cause trouble and ouveruse theyre cell phones and i know texting makes a person pay to do on the cell phones.what does she do for a job to afford so much texting. she isnt good girlfriend materia lto me.maybe someone should beet the crap out of her.lollll

[singedwingangel]

Jan. 24, 2009 at 10:57 AM

using the phone to send harassing messages is a felony. Take them directly to the police department and file a warrant for harassment. Period, He has a right to do the job he loves without worrying about his safety from a trouble maker and a little girl who needs her tail busted and her phone taken away. I would also show the texts to her step father and inform him hany further contact and she will be charged with harassment.

[crazycorkymom]

Jan. 24, 2009 at 11:38 AM

Thanks for the suggestions. I have also thought of going over everyone's heads in the fire dept, and going to the fire commissioner of PA. And seeing how he feels this should be handled as far as the fire fighting goes.

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