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Doctor and bio dad stuff
- Jan 30, 2009 at 7:14 PM
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1) I have a gluclose test in two weeks and well i have never had one so i don't know what i'm suppose to do and i can't call my doctor because he is on vacation. so tell me what i'm suppose to do about the test and what all is going to be done?!
2) I haven't told my
family the name of the bio dad b/c him and i agreed that my grandma
would freak and thats alot of stress i didn't want to deal with. Well
my grandma has been getting on my case and calling me a whore because
she thinks i don't know who the real father is. Well the bio dad told
me to please not tell her who it was. Well last night he changed and
told me he didn't care anymore that if i wanted to tell her that i
could. Well i dont know if it was because he was upset or what. so now
i'm scared to ask if he was kidding or not. What should i do? Should i
ask him, should i tell my grandparents and should it even matter who
the father is?
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1. The glucose test is really easy. They give you a really sugary solution to drink, then they wait a little while (don't remember how long) and draw your blood to see how your body reacts to the sugar. They are testing you for pregnancy related diabetes. The doctor or his staff will get a hold of you to tell you when to pick up the drink. Don't sweat it, it's really easy!!
2. You might as well tell everyone who the daddy is. They have probably already imagined all the possibilites anyway, and they will know sooner or later. If he wants to be involved with the baby, this is his time to prove himslef to your family, rather than after the baby is born. They may never like him, or never approve, but they deserve to be told the truth. If he gave you the go-ahead, then he at least meant it a little bit. Shouldn't he get to enjoy the baby coming too?
~~ You need to lean on your family instead of running away from them right now. The more open and honest you are with them, the more supportive they wil be. If you close yourself off, you will shut them out too!! ~~
- christyg
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