Besides the fact that my husband comes home from workin 13 hours, goes right to his computer and turns on his World of Warcrack game......besides the few times that I bitch about that stupid ass game, and he winds up turnin the whole argument around on me. Like its part my fault, and why dont I get a job.......even erks me more then him not comin to bed till 5 something in the mornin because he feel asleep last night playin his stupid ass game!
No! Even worse then those!
Do you really want to kno what erks me to no fuckin end?!

The fact that my husband talks to his Geek squad, on that stupid ass game, more then he does me!!!!!!
Do you kno how much that fuckin pisses me off!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry, I needed to vent and all of that wouldnt fit into my "Thought Bubble" =)
I think I need another drink.....and a pill.......

2/8/09
I kno it could be alot worse! I truly understand that!
My husband is a great Father, provider, lover, etc......
This is just the one little thing that drives me absolutely nuts! It really erks me to no end sometimes!
He still spends time with me, and ,for the most part, turns off the stupid ass game when I ask =)
I just needed to vent last night! When you feel that anger startin to rise to the point of explodin, you just have to get it out somewhere! Id rather do it here then at my husband!
I truly appreciate all the support from you amazing ladies!
You all are the best!
(Even the one who said I should play too.....Id rather burn my eyes out with acid, but I appreciate the advice)
After I wrote this original post, last night. We did turn off the computers and watch "Death Race" together =) Awesome fucking movie!!!!!!

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Julie...
Feb. 7, 2009 at 10:16 PM

Well, at least he comes home and the paycheck comes home too.  ...Not to make light of your situation. 

Maybe you could ask him to set a limit on it.  Maybe you could reach a compromise. 

Hang in there.  I can totally see what you mean.  Crappy!

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RArno...
Feb. 7, 2009 at 10:20 PM

You could always get one of those timers for lights that plug into the wall and set it to turn the computer off at a certian time...not sure it would be good for the computer or the game but it would get him to stop....

 

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Norah...
Feb. 7, 2009 at 10:20 PM

I coudnt handle that either. I'd password lock the computer and not give it to him until he gives you some time!

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isley...
Feb. 7, 2009 at 10:23 PM

 I could have written this myself.I deal with a WOW addict too. It makes me crazy too that he comes home from work and immediatly opens his laptop. Spend some time with your fucking family before you spend time with your stupid computer nerd friends!!

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SLGro...
Feb. 7, 2009 at 10:24 PM

My DH plays this game too. We have worked out an arangement though. He can only go on it at night after our son is in bed, and he does not stay on it all night. That means we go to bed together and he logs off when it's time to eat. I have told him that if it gets out of hand that I am revoking his gaming for a couple days....lol.  

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choco...
Feb. 7, 2009 at 10:36 PM

That fuckin pisses me off too, that's IT I'm comin over there to kick some warcraft geek ASS...ya well, you know I would if I could...sorry girl...I had that same issue with the x, a different game tho.. couldn't believe it when he realized it was suckin up all his time and energy and  went  and returned it...if my stupid ass x can see the light there's hope for Brian~! 

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deaco...
Feb. 7, 2009 at 10:39 PM

haha yeah, the case of the hubby and the video gaming console/software.

Mine is the same way with his PS3..and yeah, he's got EVERYTHING for that damn console.

He finally listened to me when i cracked the whip on his ass when i got pregnant. I basically told him that once this baby pops out he had better be spending some Q-time with me and the baby or it was bye bye baby and mama, and sure enough, he changed his tune.

18 months later, i have to say, he is doing pretty good. He only plays it when the baby's in bed, but sometimes on the weekend he doesn't come to bed until like 4 am and that pisses me off, and i let him know it.

So i definitely know how bad it sucks, but just lay it out on the line for him next time he pisses and moans about being tired after staying up til 4am gaming; let him know that his fatigue is self inflicted andif he comes home one day to find u and the kiddos gone thenhe has no one else but himself to blame =)

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ebbie...
Feb. 7, 2009 at 10:40 PM

Awe I am sorry.....I need a pill too

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Morbi...
Feb. 7, 2009 at 10:46 PM

play with him!

My Hubby and I play WoW together. It is awesomely fun!

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Bless...
Feb. 7, 2009 at 11:09 PM

I am so glad mine don't play that game yet.  I do hate it and heard lots of not good things about it.  I am so sorry Jen.    I hope it gets better.

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