Had to end a very long friendship

[LuvingHerKids]

Tonight it came down to the question which was automatically a no brainer...Lose my best friend of many yrs or keep my friend n have him keep bringing me down...It was simple..I may have known him for several yrs,but he will not put my dh down constantly when he had no right to talk down to him in the first place...My dh has a job,brings home a paycheck every week,puts food on the table,gives us a place to live n clothes to wear...My best friend who is a guy does not have a job,does not bring home a paycheck..Where does he get off on saying crap about my DH when he is has no job himself...

I'm sorry,but i won't be dealing with that..I love my dh more then i love myself..I put my kids n dh first before myself..Yes my dh is a smart ass,but so is my friend so he just eggs on my dh by not shutting his mouth..I will not and am not gonna just sit here n let him do that to my DH or to me..It brings me down when he does that cuz it reflects on me..He is a great father n a great husband..Thats all i ever wanted in my life a loving husband n kids and i got that..So,yes the answer is to get rid of the "cause" of the problem to get rid of the "Problem"

[fairy74]

Feb. 10, 2009 at 1:10 AM

You made the right choice, even though I'm sure it will be hard to be without your friend the way he was acting was a threat to your family.  Good for you!