I want to get married..but does he?

[kylie_2008]

Ok..first of all..please don't critise me for the age!! THANX

I am 20 and my boyfriend is 18. Together we have a handsome lil 5month old boy. We also live together. We've been together for like 4years (officially dating for 3). We are very much in love.

So for awhile now..i've been hitting (not so much hinting anymore..more like TELLING! lol) that I want to get married. He said he does to!! Amajin how excited i was! So when he said he did too..i thought..ok wont be long now n he'll pop the ?. But no! Nothing! Like we never even talked about it!!! N he has a GOOD job n makes GOOD money, so no real problem with a ring! Everytime he gets paid or a holiday..he asks me what i need or want!! Sooo sweet! I tell him I want a special little ring that goes on a special little finger? N he jus kidda laughs n moves on! ?????????? I DON"T GET IT!!!!! lol We actually went to Kays n looked at WEDDING rings n found out my size. Soooo after that I once again thought..ok he's gunna end up going back n buyin one n ask me!!!....NOPE!!! Nothing again! Like it never happened!!! lol Yet he tells me ALLL the time how he DOES want to get married n can't wait! Also I should tell you..when we were at Kays..I was showing him the on sale ones...the $80-$200 ones! He was looking more towards the $1000 n up range!! N I told him that I don't need a expensive one! But no!!

So recently I figured that he may not actually want to get married RIGHT now. So recently when he asked what I wanted for Valentines Day..he kida smiled as if he already knew what I was gunna say. N I said nothing. He kidda gave me that look of confusion, or the are you mad look lol. N I just said I wasn't gunna ask him about the marrige thing anymore. I didn't want to push or presure him! N he kida  got a lil upset! Like I hurt his feelings!

So I'm sure you can see my confusion here right?! lol So have any of you gone through this? If so..how did it turn up? N Is there anything I can do?!?! PLEASE HELP!!

[h_hoenicke]

Apr. 10, 2009 at 2:17 AM

Honey good luck MEN think that we are confusing ... i think that men are just as confusing ??? I dont know what he's waiting for .... lol play the song if you like then you shoulda put a ring on it ???