OK, Am I awful?

[hillbillyma]

 OK girls heres the deal...I recently have gotten back in touch with a friend of mine from school. He has been trying to track me down forever! I mean I'd see him out once in awhile and he'd be like, oh I drove by where I thought you were living a few times to see if I'd see you out. Whenever I see people we both knew, I ask em about you. He's looked me up on every social site there is, and so on.

 He's a nice guy, and everything and so I recently while talking to him one night on myspace told him if his fiance needed some with the wedding plans, I would be happy to help her as much as I can. I have done some party and wedding planning in my past, and still do it on the side, when the occasion arises. So, anyway they came out last friday and visited and talked and we did some wedding discussions. And, she is really nice and he's the same old guy.

 While they were out that night my hubby and I were discussing Valentine's Day. And, we mentioned that we were thinking of going to a place out here. For $20 a person you get your dinner and all the fixin's and there is going to be a live band, etc. Well, now my friend wants to take his gf there,too! He wants to know all the details so we can all go and "hang out again".

 I have no problem hanging out with them again, we had a good time and all. But, my husband and I like most parents, NEVER get a chance to go out alone. This is the first Valentine's day that I can remember us going out period. I usually make dinner and we stay in. I am really excited that I have someone to watch the kids, and that hubby and I are actually going to go out and do something together to celebrate Valentines Day!

 Am I a horrible person because, I don't want them to go and be right over our shoulder all night? I just want one night to be able to just enjoy time with my hubby all alone. To have a nice dinner, and maybe do some slow dancing? What would you ladies do?? I need help!

[2protectivemom]

Feb. 12, 2009 at 10:59 AM

I would just be honest and tell him although you appreciate the invitation to hang out together, you and your husband planned on being alone, and would really like to keep it that way, since you never get out together without the kids.