i want another one

[jenzspiffy]

I feel like i am at that point in my life where i want another baby! Im a single mom but I am with my boyfriend (who is not the biological but acts like a father to my daughter) of 6 months. we are both in love with eachother and its just feels like ... i dunno i wanna have a baby! Even my body acts pregnant like im constantly eating ice and having prego morning sickness things like that. but i know for sure im not prego. I mean is it weird that i want another baby? Even my mom is saying she wants more grandchildren ... i dont know what to think. I dont know if it would be a good time for me to have a baby right now and i want the time to be right ya know? I just feel like its ok. If i were to find out i was prego i would be so completley happy and jumping for joy!

[NorahSethsMommy]

Feb. 12, 2009 at 7:15 PM

OMG...I can remember going to my 6 week check up after having my first and even then feeling so jealous of the pregnant women! Its hard to see your baby grow up too. I wish I could have another, but I cant.

[tinadf7]

Feb. 12, 2009 at 7:16 PM

What does your boyfriend say? If he wants one too go for it.  :)

[jenzspiffy]

Feb. 12, 2009 at 7:17 PM

he wants one too! but we dont know if the timing is right! i live with my parents with my daughter and he lives in his own place .... i just want a baby so bad my heart wants one my mind wants one my body wants one ... GAH!

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[Anouck]

Feb. 12, 2009 at 7:19 PM

If you still live with your parents, and not yet with him, I personally don't think it's the right time. I think you two need to be more solid in your relationship first before you start making kids together. Try moving in together, see how that goes, and THEN start thinking about having babies...

[jenzspiffy]

Feb. 12, 2009 at 7:22 PM

see your the other half of my concience i know your right and that's the right thing to do but its like ... i dunno the time feels so right and its driving me crazy :)

(Original Poster)

[Anouck]

Feb. 12, 2009 at 7:51 PM

Oh, believe me, I know the feeling... I actually never really wanted kids, or gave it much thought, until I turned 32. But then I wanted one soooo badly. However, I wasn't in a relationship at the time, and I didn't want to have a child until I KNEW I was with the right partner, if that makes sense. Didn't happen till I was 37, heh. It was hard to wait, especially since I wasn't getting any younger, and there were definitely times I figured "what the hell, I'll just be a single mother, I don't need a man". But now, looking back, and seeing how great my SO is with our son, I'm glad I waited.

It sucks, but sometimes you have to follow your mind, and not your heart, if that makes sense...