I need opinions

[Alina22174]

Recently my husband came to me and said that we need to stop trying for  a baby cause he didnt want it to interfear with us trying to save for a house. He says he wouldnt want something to happen where i end up maybe bed ridden or anything that could cost us money for saving for a house. At that moment i was ok with it. He said he would be taking percautions cause we didnt want me back on birth control.

he then slept with me 3 times again after that discussion and left it in. he came inside me sorry (TMI). then just yesterday he came to me and said he is now going to start pulling out so we dont get pregnant before we move into the new house. Ok i got upset this time around. I emotionally thought i could handle putting off trying for a baby and realized i  am having a hard time with it even if its only waiting 7 months we have been trying for the last 9 months. Now the past two times we have made love I cry after he pulls out and it doesnt feel the same to me anymore.. is this normal ? I dont understand whats going on. Why am I crying after he pulls out? I know why we are waiting ... has anyone gone through this? does anyone have any input on this situation? Im a emotional rollercoaster wreck right now and he is being good about it. hes not getting mad when i cry hes not getting up and leaving the room. he is holding me and assuring me its not the end of the world and 7 months is not that long. Im 35 next week to me its the end of the world! how do i get though this?

[proud_mum_mum]

Feb. 15, 2009 at 4:41 AM

hi i know you dont know me but if you want to ttc here is a site i recommend www.askdramy.com and it is under on fertily maps it has helped me and my sis good luck ;)  it took me about 7 months to get pregnant but when i found that site it helped me alot and again best wishes to you !