Birthday......

[MearaFayak]

I'm so stumped for their birthday... I know they both deserve a birthday party.. I know Aislyn REALLY does..Me and My Fioncee and our family and friends deserve to celebrate both their lives... and surviving this year.

BUT I dont know what to do.. I can hardly get excited about it all.  I just have this mental block that almost wont let me do anything proactive twards it.

Can't think of a cake... cant think of who to invite... cant think of where it should be or when, other than the sat after their birthday.

I'm thinking of a faerie theme..... or care bear, or winny the pooh. any one have any advise? or ideas?

[JamieeN]

Feb. 15, 2009 at 2:09 AM

I'm voting for Whinnie the Pooh because Aislyn is so young still.  Little ones just get SO excited by him.  Go all out with Tigger and Eeyor and all.  Let youself really get into it.

I have just read all of your posts regarding Maelie.  I am so very sorry for your loss.  I will pray for you and your family.

I have been to your booth at MN Renn. My profile pic has me in costume.  Next time I am there (Though finacesses have not allowed us to lately) I will stop by if you are still there, it's wonderful that you do it for charity.

Blessings to you and yours.  I hope you find peace in all this.

[RyandDevsMOM]

Feb. 18, 2009 at 8:02 AM

I voted for Angels because at the age of one she wont really care but It will allow you to think of  your little angel on their birthday. I could see if she was three and really wanted a care bears b day. She is so little I don't see where you cant use the angel theme to help yourself and your family with your other baby not being there. You can look back when you see pics and know that was your way of not forgetting your other little one too. She made it so close to a year that I can see you wanting to include her. I am so sorry. I hope that you are doing a little better day by day. I can't imagine the pain that you must feel. Hang in there if you need to talk just let me know.