Shutterbugmama's Journal

I've tried to be quiet; It's impossible.

It's HEALTHY...make room, make way; LET IT GO. 

Create space for POSITIVITY, light, JOY...let the sun shine in.

DO NOT loan money to "friends"....friends will NEVER ask to borrow over $400 for plane tickets for themself and thier child to fly to your house, when they know your husband was just laid off...
EVER.

NO FRIEND will EVER do this to you, put you in that position, or NEED SO MUCH.

No friend.

NO FRIEND will ever help, then TOSS IT IN YOUR FACE....

NO Friend.

No FRIEND will love you, then make you feel as if you OWE them for loving you.

NO FRIEND.

NO FRIEND will take advantage of your spirit.

NO FRIEND.

NO FRIEND will depend on YOU to WIPE THEIR ASS with DOLLAR BILLS.

NO FRIEND.

NO FRIEND smokes away their money, then asks you for yours.

NO FRIEND.

No friend will love you one moment, and hang thier big ass over you and dump on your the next.

NO FRIEND.

No friend is for SALE.

NO FRIEND.

Not a ONE.

If you have one of these "FRIENDS" in your life, LET THEM GO.

Make room...

Beautiful people are WAITING at your door...

And, they wont ask for a DIME.

xo

Lessons learned.  Im thankful for them ALL.

xo

Elle

 

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Shutt...
Feb. 16, 2009 at 11:08 AM

I feel better now. 

Off to CREATE JOY!  And open my door....good people are waiting.

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halfa...
Feb. 16, 2009 at 11:26 AM

kiss

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GPSGKR
Feb. 16, 2009 at 11:51 AM

clappingYOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!

LOVE YOU!!!!!!
~Pam

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drewn...
Feb. 16, 2009 at 12:55 PM

Way to go!

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Frien...
Feb. 16, 2009 at 1:20 PM

hugs LOVE YOU!!

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Lb128f
Feb. 16, 2009 at 2:17 PM

True! ;-)

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singe...
Feb. 16, 2009 at 3:18 PM

I am sorry  but I could never do that to anyone. I hate asking for help and least of all for aplane ticket for me and MY kid.. I don't know who did it and I don't wanna know..Although I have a friend like this but she asks for money for like her gas bill and gas money because her house is a piece of crap that kills them in heating costs. So it is either get to work or heat the house. This year I have literally had them come here and stay since their gas tank is empty. OH now see no I refuse to go there... * deep breath through my noseeee out through my mouth ahhh there better much now ty .

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Nanet...
Feb. 16, 2009 at 3:21 PM

Wow, that plane ticket thing is still haning around huh??!!! Paddle on past it in your kuyak......

Oh, and my 'spot' on my face....is something, but nothing.  : )  THAT is good news!

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Shutt...
Feb. 16, 2009 at 3:49 PM

Wow, that plane ticket thing is still hanging around huh??!!!

I paid the price just this morning for not giving the loan out.

Paddling on without her makes me sad; the truth hurt, but the lesson was very important.

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pinka...
Feb. 16, 2009 at 3:58 PM

good for you! you don't need that kind of people hangin' on. It was nobody here on CM, but in my "real" life, I've had to let some really draining ones go. You just have to, for you own good. I'm so proud of you!!!

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