New Life

[MamaMulder]

Our good friends had their baby this morning. I can't even explain the emotions that ran through me when I received her text message that he was here! I am so elated! I cried tears of joy! (mooning, LOL) It was like a wave rushed through my body! She has the same cnm as me, and had him in the same room that I had my two little guys! They named him Noah Baker Green. He was 8lbs 7oz. Right between the size of my boys! :) This is her third boy. HIs big brothers names are Jerimiah Shawn and Elijah River, the three flow together so well. I on the other hand am not so good at "flowing names together" Haha! Dominic Isaiah and Owyn Matthew. I have no idea what I will do if I have another boy. It will have to be something totally random and nothing like either one of the other, if that makes sense :)

I am now looonnnnging for another baby! I want one sooooooo extremely bad! I dont care weather it be a boy or a girl, just so long as it is heathy!! Sometimes I think I want a girl, but I sure do love my boys and they sure do love eachother. Which leads me to think that maybe I do want another boy! I cant really talk to anyone around me beside my girlfriends and Matt of course about my wanting another. So posting on here will have to do. LOL! All of my family is blah blah blah the economy, blah blah blah your house is small. I just dont want to hear it. I wanted to scream at my mom yesterday when I was talking to her. It was right after I had found out that Katy's water had broken. I was talking to mom and told her I had baby fever and she said "Well, you really dont need another baby right now" I just wanted to yell F you! I may not *need* one, but I sure do want one REALLY bad! I have a feeling that this will be our month too, so wish us luck! =)

On to another subject. T-Ball! My mom is really pushing me to put Dom in Tball this summer. She asked him if he wanted to play, which of course he does. So when I told her that we plan to do a lot of traveling this summer camping and such and that we wouldnt miss that just to bring him to a tball game she flipped on me. Oh the things that came out of her mouth. "You arient going to deprive him of sports" "Do you want him to turn out like you did in high school" OMG this is TBall we are talking about! I was so pissed. I told her that I want for my boys to be in boy scouts. I feel that they will learn many more life lessons in boy scouts then they could playing sports. She just laughed at me and said "You are going to make those boys be boyscouts" I could feel my blood boiling inside my body at this point. I just dropped the subject though, because I am too nice and hate arguing! She really did piss me off though. Made me want to pick up and move out to Oregon to get away from her! That would sure fix her "say in things" Turns out though he is playing, because I also dont have the heart to tell him no. Im just not sure how many games he will make it to, because I know that when the time comes, he is going to be all for camping over tball! LOL!

Thanks for listening to my ramble. I need to get off and get some work done around here. Matt is off for the next three days and I dont want to have to waste our family time cleaning! =) Love to all!!!

[HaydensMom178]

Feb. 20, 2009 at 6:36 PM

Yea, I know how that goes!  I don't care what anyone else has to say, I want another one NOW!!! LOL  I can definitely relate to how you're feeling.  We told some of our friends the other day and the chick was all like, "OMG!!! WHY???!!!  You've got plenty of time!  Oh, you don't need to do that!  Just be happy with Hayden-you may think he's good now, but wiht another one, he'll get bad.."  blah blah blah..meanwhile she just has two stepkids (they're terrible) but still....i don't think it's because they had more than 1, it's just the way they don't pay attention to them and the way they've taught them.  I believe that as long as you include your first child in the taking care of the second child routine, then the first child will be happy.  That's what we plan to do-besides, it's like I told her, "We want to have our kids close together."  And she's all like, "Well, you're gonna be one of those moms with the white hair and you'll be pulling it out, too!"  I'm just like, "Well, I may have to end up getting wig because I want a house full of children!"  LOL Yea, sometimes people are just annoying, always thinking they have a say in things and not thinking how what they're saying may hurt someone's feelings.  Yeah, yall just stick to what it is that YALL wanna do-only you two are the ones who know when it's time to expand you're family (and what to do with your children).  Good luck!!!

[Carri2362]

Feb. 22, 2009 at 1:12 AM

oh you are sucha good mama.....I think you need another one!!!!  If we all waited until the time was right....I wouldn't be here LOL  I learned to not talk to my family about our decisions.  They already think I am a crazy hippy.   I swear they don't come to visit b/c they think I live in a tree lol j/k  They just see everything from the outside.  Your body and heart are telling you it is time and to my hubby and I, that was all we needed.  We were ready financially, but honestly nothing can really prepare you for what ACTUALLY happens lol.  Everythingfinds a way to work itself out.  Hugs mama!

[nomadichippy]

Feb. 24, 2009 at 12:48 PM

Boy Scouts are cool!!!

Love Much, Katherine