The guy that is so in love with you but its not your husband s/o.

[donna1972]

Being divorced and a single mom, my job at the sawmill tends to be a little hectic, but I found out one thing men sure do like to gossip. So far it has been around that I'm involved with this guy that guy and the brother to the boss, and I'm like oh really, when do i have time to do all of this and still be able to take care of my kids, at first it made me just mad, I was going to kick everyones a**. But then I talked to a good friend of mine and he is a man,  he said "Its a job don't let it get you down."

But there is this one guy he is not my type and we have no common interest and I told him straight up no relationship no nothing, but he has helped my family so much. He has bailed us out of tough times, sat there and listened to me, changed a poopy diaper, watched my kids, and the list can go on. But I am not in the slightest bit interested in him. This he knows too, but he wants a straight forward relationship, even so bold to say he was going to end up as my husband someday, I have put all of my cards on the table, laid everything out, and it still won't go through his head. I mean nice guy, but to run with me he needs a backbone. To me he is a nerd, a yes person, his personal hygiene is something to be desired, as well as his attitutde his whole being. I can't shake him, nicest man would do anything for me, but I would never be interested in him. My friend said be thankful of angels that come into your life, you are not taking advantage of him he is offering help, but he wants more and is willing to wait till the end of time to get it. Honestly I have explained my thoughts feelings and even got mad at him, he was jealous over the fact that I gave his friend my phone number, that he looked my phone number up in the phone book, and called me up. that in itself is really freaky, he has made no threats of physical violence, hell I could easily bitch slap him. I mean i feel sorry for him, he is just lonely i think. But I can't shake him.

I have gotten advice to"oh tell him your a lesbian." to "oh well if he wants to spend his paycheck on you let him.' Overall he is a docile nice man with alot of issues. I have been straightforward, I even rejected him totally, and a week later, Oh i miss u i love you" . confused at this point in time at what to do with him.