You know, just when you think things can't get any worse than they already are, somehow they do manage to get worse.

The crap with my fiance's family has just gone to a whole other level. He got scammed by his parents into going over there (he had some mail there or something and our Christmas presents) and they pretty much ripped him apart again. They went as far as to suggest that we "Take a break", move home (me to my parents' place and him to their place) for at least 6 months and then see if we should get back together. There's nothing wrong with our relationship!!!! Why the hell should we break up??? We have 2 problems: our finances (us and just about everyone else) and them. Our finances is something we're working on. We've been seeing a credit councillor and we're trying to get back on track. Their solution to our finances? Declare bankruptcy! Our credit councillor, you know, someone who's actually trained in finances, advised us against it....but of course, they know more about this stuff than she would.

For Christmas, they got me pjs that don't fit and body lotion and wash that smell like crap. And they told him that they hope I can see this as a peace offering...after they told him we should break up....am I slow or does this not make any sense at all.

All I want to do is scream...then go over there and scream at them...I'm so fed up with their crap! I just don't know what to do anymore... 

banging head into wall

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vycki...
Mar. 3, 2009 at 11:29 PM

Im sorry Mama that you are having problems with his family! That by itself brings lots of stress...Just stay strong in what you two have and keep going forward! Much love and tons of Hugs Jess!

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mchen...
Mar. 4, 2009 at 1:24 PM

Wow...I mean...WOW...

They've certainly upgraded to a whole new level, haven't they???  Nice to know that people who are trying to run our lives are complete nutcases, huh? 

Stay strong and know that you two are going to get through this together!!!

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