So I went to my OB today, and forgive me if it seems like things are missing, I have ALOT on my mind. She is nowhere near where they would like her to be, and with her being so far behind this early, is even more of a concern. She is under quite a bit of stress in there. I was officially taken off of work, he told me if I continued to work, he could almost guarentee that I would not have this baby. He is getting a plan together for me, he is talking to the high risk doctor at the hospital and the head of the PAC to decide what needs to be done now. He plans on putting me on steriods to make her grow enough to be healthy to deliver. He told me he is not very hopeful that I will make it the next 5 weeks even! At this point, I just want her to be healthy enough to fight through this when I have her. He didnt say it, but from the comments made, since she is under so much stress, I dont think that he is even going to let me attempt to have her naturally. Which I would have loved to do again, but like I said, what ever is healthiest for her. He also broke the news, that this should probably be our last baby. I am just going to continue to get worse with each baby. Heartbreaking. I knew it was coming, but it is just so different actually hearing it.
As hard as it is, I am so glad that I dont have a dr who will sugarcoat it and lie to me. It hurt to hear any of this, but at least I know what is going on.......
Please everyone keep our family in prayers and thoughts.
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Girl I am so sorry :( I will definatly keep praying for you guys! Keep us updated, try not to stress it's not good for either of you, if you need anything AT ALL let me know, OKAY!
- Whisper85
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