I am so tired of this...

[momofbrian]

I am just so tired of our living situation right now.  If you read my other journal post "I am so angry"  you know one of the guys that live here in the boarding house.  Well, I have been cooking dinner earlier in the day say about 1:00 PM or 2:00 PM so all I have to do is heat it up later.  Well today I went to start cooking about 3:00 PM.  I was going to cook chicken legs and cutlets.  Now that might take a half an hour at most, he then comes down and starts yelling at me that he needs to cook before he goes to work.  Now most of the time, he doesn't leave until 6:30 PM or later.  He doesn't want to even listen to what I have to say.  So I put everything away.  I have knocked on his door and have asked him when he wants to cook quite a few times before.  He always says he doesn't know when he wants to cook.  He basically has a set time when he goes to work, so why can't he schedule a time when he needs to cook.  Meanwhile, he doesn't cook evvery night.  I think he just feels he should be able to cook whenever the hell he wants to.  When you live with other people (like in a boarding house where you share the kitchen and the bathroom) that you should make a schedule.  He feels because he pays the most rent, that he should be able to do whatever he wants.  I think that is so inconsiderate!  He then calls the landlord and tells him about the cooking situation and then he adds that my son is jumping and banging all the time.  Now my son leaves for school at 6:30 AM and doesn't come home until 3:45 PM during the weekdays.  Now on the weekends he may make a little noise but we try to keep it to a minimum.  But yet this guy feels he can play his music really loud so everyone else can hear it!  I am really tired of dealing with this JA! 

We have been looking at apartments as much as possible.  My husband works during the day and most of the time they want you to look at the apartments in the evening.  It takes time to find a decent apartment!  It's even harder trying to find an apartment we can afford.  If I had a job, we would be able to afford a higher rent.