my husband

[momma2onegirl]

  I love him to death , but lately he is just getting on my nerves. We have been together for almost 16 years.,married almost 11years ... I met him when I was 17, moved in with him the day after I turned 18.We have been through ALOT of stuff ,I mean ALOT. We used to lay on the couch and watch tv , and play fight and everything...BEFORE we had our daughter , who is almost 6 now.These days , he says stuff like U  dont have time for me ,( idont have time for myself either ) or you dont love me anymore do u? wtf  I mean get real.I work ,take care of the kids and taking them back and forth to dance and church , him, housework, dogs.plus make all of my crafts to sell so we can have extra money  .he works during the day, gets home bout 3 and I work like 4 days where i have to go in at 2 .so I guess hes acting like this because we arent spending enough time together .He doesnt know how it hurts me when he says that stuff.I have told him, if I didn't love you has much as I do, I wouldn't be here .....

Sorry to vent , I just had to get this off my chest.I DONT GET IT >>aaagghhh >>>>

any advice ?

[sassyhettel]

Mar. 4, 2009 at 11:35 AM

I am always willing to listen to a vent:-)  Thats what friends are for!  As far as advice......maybe you and him could make it a point once a week to do something together.  Even if its just watching a movie, going for a walk (when its warm, of course), playing a board game, etc.  Just doing something like that once a week may help!

[goatmom4]

Mar. 4, 2009 at 11:47 AM

hang in there  things will get better

[SamsMom24]

Mar. 4, 2009 at 7:29 PM

aww hang in there,you know you love each other.Maybe you can pick a day or a time in the day where you just sit down together and talk and watch a movie or something.You both need time for each other.Sometimes every day life gets in the way of things and we forget about spending time together, you could make him something special, or leave a note somewhere for him , surprise him with something.

[momma2onegirl]

Mar. 5, 2009 at 11:17 PM

thanks for the advice ...we r goin to try 2 go out ot eat 2 morrow..wish us luck

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