Practice and LIVE .........In order to receive one needs to give, but when one is in need, the focus is on their need and not others, so it is very very hard to receive in that state.......the more desperate people are the more they need, the more focus is on their need, and others sense this and move away from them......when the shift of focus is on others - inspite of ones own personal need, this creates an environment of giving......this is a paradox and is hard to practice unless all sense of personal need is' let go of' and then then hearts open...and MORE......
This is what I believe and what I so much want to practice and teach.
I see so much of the opposite and perhaps that is because of the present state of our economy.
Or perhaps it is because after so many 'failures' or 'trys' one becomes frustrated and broke. And then again, it is possible that you don't know any better. You are just doing as you have been taught or see what so many others are doing and just follow suit. The more we are under the GUN the less we seem to produce. So much energy is wasted berating yourself or others. We really MUST get back to that place in our lives where we are giving freely.
It may only be advice of what and where not to go and do. It may be offering trust to others. It
may be MORE!
The biggest question I see is HOW DO YOU GAIN THE TRUST.....HOW DO YOU REACH OUT?
The Internet is Huge. The Internet is Busy and forever Changing Direction. The Internet is Full
of Advice on What to Do, What Not to Do, and How to Attract to You! BUT....have you ever noticed how easily people are drawn to those that do not have such character traits? (Trust) Have you ever wondered why? I know I certainly have...........and more and more I still see people falling for the hype and false promises of what could be! Is it because they are offering what we want or need to be and have in our lives? Is it because they know what buttons to push using the right forms of copywriting skills? Should we really be following some of these business models and so called Mentors? My biggest Pet Peeve is all the "PRETENDERS' we see!
Network Marketing is a Teaching and Mentoring Business. Our Job, should we choose to accept
it, is to take you by the hand and walk you through! Our product is PEOPLE and we need to find
their Dreams and help them fulfill these. This should not be a numbers game.....People are REAL, just like you and I. Networking is about building Relationships and Trust! When you are
working with Huge Lists, the numbers game, and that is your focus...where is the relationship factor? These are Recruiters! A Sponsor works within his or her own team. I like to call this the Power of One which in turn becomes People Power! Teaching and guiding those you sponsor to teach and guide those they sponsor.
Yes, it is true....the Auto responder is a huge time saver for everyone and is a powerful tool if used
correctly. There is something to be said for joining a person in their opportunity who takes the time to connect with you FIRST on a more personal level than just via their auto responders. This is REAL. As powerful a tool as they may be, they are cold. They just deliver the messages. There are no excuses! If your business is so large that you no longer have time to communicate on a personal level that is understandable but you should have team leaders in place that can help and communicate to the new people joining your team. Everyone appreciates personal communication. I recently heard this and I think it is perfect! A SPONSOR=2 ears and 1 mouth. A RECRUITER (heavy hitter) = 0 ears and 2 mouths!!
SO HERE IS THE TRUTH TEST................ WHICH WOULD YOU CHOOSE?
The person or persons that are telling you the truth...even if they have not made a dime yet.....
Or the Wannabe marketer who is following the Recruiter standards?
The person or persons who say they will be there for you and ARE really there every inch of the way...........OR the Hot Shot Heavy Hitter who cuts you off at the knees because they are just too busy to answer your trivial questions?
No, you will not always know this right out of the gate. But should you recognize this do you have
the courage and inner conviction to 'get out' and cut your losses and continue your search?
"THE ONLY PERSON WHO LOCKS THE DOOR TO SUCCESS IS YOU!'
And don't forget to share your thoughts and questions. I'd love to know what you really think
In Truth and Sincerity,
Merry
www.onlinemarketinggal.com .
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