need help

[alouya21]

i am going thru a hard time right now. i found one of my ex boyfriend and i still have feeling for him. but i am dating the father of my two beautiful children. i don't love him any more. what do i need to do. please help. thinking about leaving him and going to other boyfriend.

[njmommy2boys]

Mar. 7, 2009 at 7:02 PM

I think you need to think about what is best for your children.  You shouldn't even be talking to ex-boyfriend.

[Alwaysacarnie]

Mar. 7, 2009 at 8:08 PM

The grass though it may look greener isn't always! I speak from experience!! I left my dh for an ex. The ex promised me the world, and ya know what? I haven't talked to him but less than a dozen times in the last year. I also haven't seen him in more than a year and we have a 7 yr old daughter together!! Think this whole thing thru, because you may think your ex wants you, you may even know it, but he is/was an ex for a reason!! I wish you luck!!

[__Faithie__]

Mar. 31, 2009 at 10:34 PM

It's not always greener on the other side of the pasture there.... Y are u getting married if u have no feelings for daughters daddy??

[HeatherLynn]

Mar. 9, 2010 at 9:43 AM

sometimes we get married for the wrong reasons. I know I did. We had a 2 yr old boy tgther, and I thought I still loved him (high school sweethearts), but after a year of marriage I came to the realization that the love was no longer there. I feel inlove with a co-worker, left my husband, and am in the happiest relationship I've ever been in. My son adores him, and I have no regrets. The only thing is, I think I was more inlove with the idea of being married, than with the man, you know what I mean?? Dont make that same mistake, take a step back at figure out what you want your life to be like. I came to your page after reading your post, and just wanted to share, I hopeou make the best desicion for yourself. =D