Life as we know it

[Brettsmommy13]

My baby is going to be a year old in 3 months!  I just can't believe it!  I actually cried today.   I have a terrible sinus infection, with the worst headache ever.  Me and Tony are much better, things starting getting really rough for awhile.  But things are back to normal, we're the couple that everyone hates, perfect!  My soon to be step son has taken a really bad turn.  We have no idea what's up with him... well actually we've a pretty good idea.  His mothers' side of the family, we believe that they are talking bad about all of us and implating things about us in his head.  Which is a big no no in their divorce papers.  He's four almost five and he treats us all like he don't want to see us like it's killing him to come over here.  We get him every other week (not weekend they switch weeks).  It started with me, about 6 or 7 months pregnant with his brother is when his attitude began to change, and everyone said it was of course me.  Then it slowly moved to his grandma and papaw.  And now it's just all of us.  All he talks about is how good his mothers side is and I know it's got to be killing tony.  I really wish we could prove it.  I want to get her for child endangerment so bad.  I'm not one to judge people or jump to judgements and say your a bad parent, but she is!  She's always taken him out for fast food!  My poor baby weighs 90 pounds and he's four (given he's 4 foot is besides the point), he should only weigh about 65.  No matter what we try to do over here it's just never good enough compaired to his mothers where he runs the house.  We can't counter the fast food, she won't listen, she's a nurse's aide so she knows all.  FAST FOOD almost killed her, her quack of a doctor told her to lay off or it would, and she's feeding this to her son.  She refuses to take him to a peditrician, her doctor is god.  He's a quack!  He almost killed my mother, and i've known to other people who have went to him and had problems with him.  So tell me is this what you want your child going to.  He finally told her to stop eating so much fast food when it almost killed her.   You would think he would have said something when she began packing on the pounds form it.  sorry I'm just venting but thank you for listening!