found out grandma has 2 weeks maybe a few more but not much. and with DH going its getting really hard to go through the day. I feel like its all a dream. Its hard to see DH go but something that i can deal with and death is what happens but to have both happen at the same time in the same week i don't know what to do with myself. i want to go see granny and have that time but the kids need to see their dad before he goes.