Oh no... oh no... oh no.... UPDATE!

[MiasMama123]

So I may be trippin', but I doubt it....  I jsut was cruising MySpace, saw that my daughter's auntie from her dad's side (whom we are not in contact with, at all) posted some new pics... and her dad was in them!  He is supposed to be in Utah!!!  So now apparently he lives like 10 miles away at his moms house again, surprise surprise.....  anyway, he is psycho, abusive, and totally unpredictable--- especially when he and his mom get together, and she gets him all fired up about getting his kids back!!!   He had 3 before we got together, and, according to his MySpace, too, he has a new one... 

I have full custody of my daughter, I hope----  I say that because when she was 2, he signed his rights over to me because he didn't want to pay child support.  Real stand-up guy!  But I don't have any paperwork saying so.  So, Monday I get to go to the courthouse and find out if it is legal, and if not, then what?  Do I go find them and say, "Hey!  Long time, no see!  So, here--- sign this!"

Sorry, I am not making much sense---  I am really shaken up right now.  I want NOTHING to do with that family, I never want my daughter to be exposed to them!!  He hurt me, he broke my nose and gave me 7 stitches, and wouldn't drive me to the hospital, because "they will think I did it!!!"  LOSER!!!!!!

 

I need to move...  I need to get out of here....  I hope he doesn't find us!!!  Oh, please don't let him find us......

 

Update:

So I haven't been able to stop trippin' on this, so I got home from work today (the day after I posted this) and Googled his name:  and, lo and behold!  An arrest log from the local paper came up--  arrested in December for willful cruelty to a child!!!  WHAT THE FUCK!!!  I have no idea which child, but my best bet, though, would be his little sister--- she's 15.  I highly doubt there is another child in the house.  So I am SO RELIEVED!!!  Don't get me wrong, I feel sorry for the child involved, whoever it may be...  but this makes me feel so much better, because now, he would be a TOTAL IDIOT to try to get any sort of visitation/custody (HAH! Over my dead body!) of my daughter.  The judge would laugh in his face!!!!  I haven't been able to stop grinning....  what an idiot.  I feel a ton safer now.  Is that weird?  Or do I have the right to feel relieved?

 

 

 

[Bopples]

Mar. 14, 2009 at 11:11 PM

That's awful. I'm sorry you had to go through that. Same here...my kids father is not involved AT ALL and neither is any of his family for the same reason as you. He was VERY abusive. I had to move out of state to get away from him and haven't seen or spoken to him in about 2 years! Good for you for getting out! If you ever need to talk or vent or anything, feel free to message me...I know how scary it is. Good luck with everything! Stay safe!

[luvmyjeeps]

Mar. 16, 2009 at 1:43 PM

What a jerk!  You have every right to feel the way you do ( =  Hey, you guys can always move up here (( =