ok ladies... so we all know that need to be loved and appreciated etc. We also know in order to have a sound relationship, and maintain some sort of sanity, we need emotional, physical closeness, cuddle/ love making sessions... and orgasms!

with that being said, every guy has varying levels of stamina... some guys can go for hours, some for seconds, and some in between. foreplay is what women need, but for guys, too much may over-stimulate them to the point where once the penetration has commenced, it's almost over. c'mon, most of you know what i'm talking about!

what's important is for us to know how our men are and to make sure we are pleasing them, but not so much that we don't ever get off. I know I am very fortunate, and that not all men really care about making sure their woman enjoys herself.

My hubby got a sitter, a room, some movies and toys and surprised me with a wonderful night recently! blindfold, foreplay etc... he took his time and made sure i enjoyed myself very very much... 4 hours of "playing around" It's not always possible to go on an overnight lovefest, but it is truly important to try and make time for eachother. (we can surprise them too, ya know?) 

many of you are thinking "yea, i know that already." I did not write this to inform anyone of anything... just my own babbel. 

but ladies, remember, he should treat you like you are a WOMAN... THE ONLY WOMAN and get romantic every once in a while... it keeps the fire going, and gives you peace of mind. 

and ps does anyone know what i'm talking about... when you go a while without sex and begin to get irritable... then you make sweet passionate love and you feel like a whole new woman? It's a very good stress reducer, lets you blow off some steam, and gives you that feeling of physical/ emotional support from your other half. 

HUZZAH FOR SEX! and for sweet romantic surprises!

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MrsFa...
Mar. 16, 2009 at 12:19 PM

What a sweet sweet surprise. Your husband sounds just like mine. We're both lucky girls !!! My husband even does such little things that make me feel like his woman and damn proud of it. Remember, the more we make them feel like a stud, the more they do in return and make us feel like we are the sexiest damn woman alive !

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