she is so STUPID!!!!

[motheroftrouble]

 ok ladies im sorry i just need a min to vent about the stupid a$$ ex of my hubby's. long story short...... SD is 10 we see her about 2 weeks a year if that. her BM i swear has that munch house syndrome ( where she makes the kid sick and then puts her on all kinds of meds) this is not proven but i have look into it. she (BM) is for sure bipolar that is proven.

ok to the point BM talked to DH tonight and she informes him that their child is now taken meds for adhd even though the dr said she was add then she starts with this crap that it just all of a sudden happened.

now i have never studied up on add or adhd but aint that something you are born with not something that just happens over night? im scared that she is messing this child up big time. at one point she was given her (SD) 2 tablespoons exlax a day. so i took her to the dr to find that her mom was drugging her. so we took it to court and she denied it all. what the hell is wrong with this chick (BM).

DH says "what im i suppose to do? im just the sperm donor she want listen to me" what am i suppose to do? 

[wwjdstamper]

Mar. 20, 2009 at 7:27 PM

Before your SD starts thinking something is wrong with her (self that is).  You need to have a heart to heart talk to her.  Tell her that, if her BM ever gives her meds again, to immediately tell you.  She's probably just as confused as you, and is afraid to say anything.

There should also be supervised visitation, at this point.  This is getting to be a health hazard, and very dangerous situation.

I'll keep you in our prayers.

Liz