Life is changing

[SummerHolloway]

 The last year has been a whirlwind. so many things have happened and we have gotten better. Our relationship, our life, our finances, everything. In December we got pregnate. I made a promise I would pay off our bills by June (Ty stays home and takes care of our son and makes money from properties he owns) if we got to start trying in December... anywho. The bills are almost paid off (yay). And soon I get to stop working to be a stay at home momma, which is what I want to be.

Ty has his OCS board on the first and we will find out when he leaves then. I will be moving to Tennessee while he is in basic training and OCS, then meeting up with him whenever he goes to AIT or whatever it is called for officers. Mason will be born in Tennessee, away from my family (which i am excited about), and with my grandparents.

I am happy for the move. It will be great for me and London and for my gramma who is trying to care for my grampa. It will be great for Tyler because when he gets to OCS I can visit on the weekends... which means I get to see my husband in the next 8 months! My family does not know yet, but people are going to freak out. My sisters are going to throw a fit and my best friend is going to be butt hurt. It is going to be drama. My younger brother told me to F*** what they think and do whats best for us, which we are going to do.

In the end it is what is best for us and our familiy... and when I got married, my family (my dh and kids) became the most important above anything else.

[mrsedge24]

Mar. 23, 2009 at 11:33 PM

You guys always have to do what is best for your little family.  Friends and your family have to understand that, and if they give you grief about it, you might need to go ahead and tell them that they aren't acting like they have your best interests in mind!  It's hard when you have that much change, but people fly all over the world these days, and I promise that you will always be stationed in a place where friends and family can visit you!  This is probably a good thing for you guys to do, sounds like Ty has it figured out going in as an officer!  I wish you nothing but the best!  Military life is NOT bad :)