I've Lost Two Babies In 4 Months!!!

[logan612]

I lost my baby again.  I had two great u/s's and I went for a 3rd on Thursday because at my regular appt. the dr. couldn't find the heartbeat.  The u/s confirmed my worst fear.  There was no hearbeat.  I was 12 weeks the baby stopped growing at 11 weeks.  This is my second m/c in a row all within 4 months.  I'm trying to deal with this the best I can but don't quite know how that is.

 

[nikkileerue]

Mar. 24, 2009 at 11:31 AM

I am sorry for your loss, I have not miscarried before, but I have lost a baby. It's always hard. You just need to find a way that helps you cope. I tried therapy and journaling. It got me through the bad times. If you need to talk, message me anytime.      (It will get easier)

[Nolasweetie]

Mar. 24, 2009 at 2:32 PM

I am sooooo sorry for your loss.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.

BECKY

[Charlies_mommy]

Mar. 24, 2009 at 3:15 PM

I'm sorry for your loss. Your family and you are still in my prayers. ((hugs))

[Rachael]

Mar. 24, 2009 at 3:23 PM

I am so sorry.  I went through the same thing before my first son was born (he is 13 today)  I just had to remember that everything happens for a reason and when the time was right I would have my baby.  Please take time to relax and heal your body, then try again.  I wish you all the luck in the world.  PM me anytime.  {{hugs}}

[TortisShell]

Mar. 24, 2009 at 8:38 PM

I'm so sorry.  You need to take some time to heal yourself.  Try to take it easy, and be good to YOU for a while - you do deserve it, despite how you might feel.

[robibaby]

Mar. 25, 2009 at 3:11 PM

A couple of things that helped me was writing a good bye letter to my little one.  I also took all the ultrasounds I had and created a journal/ scrapbook of her life.  The support groups on here really helped me.  It allowed me to vent to people that understood where I was coming from.  Everyone copes in different ways and sad to say this will be a life long battle for us.  At first there will be all bad days but as the days go on you'll have good days too.  For now just allow yourself to feel what you are feeling.  

[laylia]

May. 8, 2009 at 9:42 AM

sorry to here that may god bless you