Question: How old were you when you lost your virginity?





I waited until I was married

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SO I'm sitting at 3 in the morning watching tv. Roseanne is on and its a  /sex episode. It got me thinking because I have a little girl who will be 9 soon. She's asked about where babies come from and I've been upfront and bluntly honest with her about all of it. For those of you who have older children, did you talk to them about sex and babies? Did they talk to you before they chose to do it about birth control and such? Did they talk to you after they made that choice to lose their innocence?  I'm just wondering how old you were when you found out about babies and sex. How old were you when you first lost "it"? There is a poll and you don't have to answer if you don't want to.

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Mar. 26, 2009 at 7:39 AM

I really was naive and didn't figure out what sex was all about until age 16 and by 18 was sexually active.  By 19 with no guidance from my mother, pregnant with my first child. 

I had four daughters and did try to keep them innocent as long as possible.  They are adults now and in hearing them talk among themselves they became sexually active around the same time I did BUT were well informed on birth control from me.  Now they are having my grandchildren, but these are planned pregnancies.


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