My SO broke up with me :o(

[Lizzie32390]

 It's been almost 2 weeks since he broke up with me and at first he was calling it a break.  We had been together 3 1/2 years and we had a beautiful daughter 9-25-08 named Lacie. He decided to make a mistake that has coted our entire relationship and he doesn't want us to argue but it's something we could work on. He said he wanted us to talk and work things out  and now he's just confused on wha he wants. He is saying the most hurtful things I've ever heard. I don't know why things keep being thrown at me out of nowhere all I know if this is gods test then I give up because I don't want anymore. I don't want to be alone but I don't  want to look fr someone else. I loved him so much and I thought he felt the same but I guess I didn't know him like I thought I did...my heart is shattered into pieces. I've bared my soul and spoken my mind but how can someone get over you so fast. I could understand if we weren't togther that long but we have been and have been through a lot. I want so badly to make it work but he's given up so I don't know what to do anymore with myself.

[theRonimal]

Mar. 27, 2009 at 10:51 AM

Oh Mama, it will all be alright with time. It always hurts in the beginning, but if he wasn't really happy with you, then you BOTH would have been miserable in the long run. You are now free to go out and find that happiness that you so deserve!!! :D I'm here if you need anything!

[poptart0325]

Mar. 27, 2009 at 11:02 AM

:( I am so sorry, hun. I hope that he will come to his senses and realize that he loves you and wants to be with you. If that doesn't happen though, you will get through it. Just remember that you have a beautiful little girl that you have to be strong for. It's always going to hurt, but it will heal with time. He shouldn't be saying hurtful things to you, you don't deserve that. I am here for you if you want to talk or anything. Much love. <3

[simplysarah77]

Mar. 27, 2009 at 11:07 AM

aww, I'm sorry your hurting.

[jblueeyes228]

Apr. 4, 2009 at 2:18 PM

 You don't have to look for someone else honey, they show up just when your Not looking. But for now all you have to do is take care of yourself and that Beautiful baby Girl. I know, that's what I did when it happend to me twenty years ago. Man was it HIS LOSS in the end. Things beyond my imagination happened in my life. Everything really DOES happen for a reason.

[sassy65babe]

Aug. 23, 2009 at 7:44 AM

Hey I know it sucks and it was alot to go through

But dont give up on love

We have to hurt to experience joy

And people come into our life for a reason

He was sent into your life to hurt you for a reason and I know it may not make sense and seem fair at the time but its one of those things you have to go through

Your a beautiful mommy and I  am sure an excellent one too

Stay strong and smart for Lacie

Love you

I am here for you