I'm closing in on the end of my pregnancy and It's my third one. How ever I'm more scared than I have ever been with my other two pregnancies. I have 2 girls and this is my 1st boy and I'm terified. I don't know how to take care of a boy. Is it really that different than girls other than the parts. What if I screw him up or make him gay? I would have no problem with any of my kids being gay, but I wouldn't want to be the cause. What if he is deformed and ends up with like 2 penises or something. I never used to care what others thought with my 1st 2 pregnancies, but with this one every critisization terifies even more. I think it's cause I'm already so scared, but before the only opinions that mattered were my docs, and hubbies. Now any slam I get freaks me out and makes me want to cry. It terifies me that they are right when I should already know they are not. My doc says my feelings might be caused by a new harmone strand in my sytem. I just don't know. I hope I have a hansome baby boy that is healthy and perfectly fine. I just want to be an over exerted insane Hypocontriac that would be so nice.

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Apr. 19, 2009 at 4:43 PM

You can't MAKE your child gay. It's a personal decision as they get older. You shouldn't be scared about something being wrong with your boy. It's really no different than raising a girl. Same discipline, same EVERYTHING. You just care for the private area differently, dress them differently and boys don't get a period lol... That's basically it. Don't stress so much!!!   =]

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