Why am I feeling so sad and alone

[TALLY66]

 My days lately have been very boring and lonely seems like I have been sick for months if its not 1 thing it is another. My DH has been so distant and silent almost like he is not here expect for the occasional gripe at me for something that is wrong or needs to be done.He took off a few days this week I thought it was for spring break but guess it was just time for himself because all he has done is go to the movies the last 2 nights by his self we don't like the same types of movies so he didn't ask me and we have not had our son the past couple days he is staying with some friends so that leaves me by myself,I really don't mind but think it is a little selfish on his part.

sometimes I think him and everyone else would be better off without me,no I'm not throwing a pity party it is just our feelings for one another are not the same anymore don't get me wrong we love each other very much but there are things and people that get in the way sometimes,I can't go into detail .maybe I don't give him the love he needs ,we have problems in the bedroom area it is my fault see when I was 6 till 12 a neighbor molested me and I never told anyone till I was grown so I have issues with certain things and he tells me to get over it he just does not understand what I was put through,am I wrong to feel this way?

[aubie]

Mar. 28, 2009 at 1:00 AM

Tally, I had no idea.  Have you tried going to counseling for what you went through?

[angiebangie84]

Mar. 28, 2009 at 10:04 AM

WOW I have a hubby that tells me to get over things too. *HUGS* Isnt it amazing how men suck with sympathy. I know we dont talk much but I met you at Jens once and you were really nice. feel free to message me if ya ever need a chat with someone.

[CarrGirl]

Mar. 28, 2009 at 5:35 PM

I'm sorry Tally.  Have you called him out on it?  Maybe some counselling would be good.  Saved my best friend's marriage (granted, they are still working on it, but they are in such a better place)  Keep your chin up...you're wanted and loved!