-Sometimes-

[RaynesMommy07]

Sometimes in life we all have roads and paths to pave for ourself.  Yet we tend to rely on other's to help us, but when that path or road gets rocky, instead of blaming ourself for not being strong enough to pave it alone, we tend to blame the other person.  U can't continue to blame the people that YOU allow into ur life...Sometimes U have to blame u.  Placing the blame on another person is very easy, but the hard part is facing urself and saying "yup I allowed this person into my life, I allowed this hurt and pain to continue with no end, I allowed to not only let him/her be who they were, but I also allowed myself to be EVERYTHING except me."  Facing ourselves at the end of a relationship, friendship, or even a life is never easy, but by doing so it makes us a stronger individual.  Happiness is NEVER found in someone else, as much as 99% of the human race believes this.  I have heard so many times " I NEVER knew happiness until I met such n such" that goes to show ME that you have NEVER once in ur 20 odd years of living been happy.  That in itself is sad.  In order to know happiness..U have to face happiness head on..and facing that won't involve no one but YOU.  Sometimes we have to live with and love ourselves, before we can start to live or love someone else.  Sometimes what u want isn't always what U need.  Sometimes giving all of yourself to someone isn't enough.  Sometimes loving someone isn't healthy.  So U have to learn that SOMETIMES U have to be all that you NEED in order to WANT someone else.  U have to learn that SOMETIMES U can't give to someone else..when giving to urself isn't enough.  U have to learn that SOMETIMES U have to be healthy in order to be able to love healthy and whole.  Sometimes it's ALL up to YOU..and when u realize this.  It becomes clear and has meaning.  Sometimes when u think U NEED that ONE person..ALL U need is three..Me, Myself, And I.  Sometimes YOU will be wayy more than ENOUGH!