trying to destress

[lmaywild1]

What a week.  Month end is always difficult at work.  Seems to be growing each month though.  Boss stressed out, co - workers stress. Then add family nonsense on top of it.  My sister had to repro a car from my middle daughter.  Of course it didn't go smoothly.  DD idoit husband got involved.  Pissed off cuz her family won't hand them everything for free.  Expected my sister to let them keep the car even though they are 6 months behind in payment. I really worry about my middle daughter, she isn't who I raised her to be any more.  The entire family worries about her getting beat again, however she won't do anything about it.  We have helped her as much as we can,  made sure that she knows she always have a safe place to go. However she continues to go back to the a**. She is suffering and I don't know how to make it better.  I know that until she finds her backbone and decides that she deserves better, not a whole lot I can do.  The heart aches we are all feeling is getting to the point of overwhelming. So hard to watch her fall to rock bottom. I hope that she finds it soon and starts working her way back out of it. I don't know how much more the family can wait for her to figure it out.  Terriffied of losing her. He has now cut her off completely from her family and that is not the way that we work.  We have to sneak to see her. We aren't giving up, however I''m worried that someone will take matters into their own hands. 

eldest daughter turn 21 yesterday. EEEKS I'm old. thought being made a NANA made me old.  Two grown drinking age children made it worse.  When did I get that old.

YOungest is almost 17.  darn it.