I can't believe she did us this way

[momma2onegirl]

ok,my 16 year old step daughter , has lived with us for about 3 and a half years ,has moved out of our home,and back with her bio-mom.( this woman cant live in the same place for more than 6 months if that. ) So my step daughter , said she wanted to move back in with her  bc she has a place of her own( probably  not for long)  her bio mom used to stay with  friends or with boyfriends, and the kids would have to sleep on floors, couches or whatever.

,my hubby told her that she was old enough to make the choice BUT she was going to have to wait until school was out for the summer  to move .Well this was all said on Thursday night ,and Friday after school ,she got her mom to pick her up from school, and sent her Dad and Me  a T E X T that she wasnt coming back , she just wasn't happy here. .. i think its bc her daddy wont let her run buck wild , and her bio mom will..We have done everything for her since she has lived with us,-gave her a stable place to live , with her own bedroom,  I cant understand why she did this ....and she has really upset my 5 year old , she wants to know why her sister isnt living here anymore , i have tried to explain it to her,I mean the least she could have done ,is leave in a better way, by tellin her little  sister bye.I am SOOOO upset with her

thanks for listening to my vent ... I just wanna scream and cry

[Kellyjude1]

Apr. 7, 2009 at 8:12 PM

 I am so sorry.  Hopefully she will realize one day all that you and your husband has done for her.  Sometimes children need to learn on their own.  Just know you did the best you could and that is all you can do. 

[sassyhettel]

Apr. 7, 2009 at 10:10 PM

I am so sorry hun:-(  Maybe she just needs to experience life with her bio mom and that will make her realize how good she ad it with you and hubby.  Hang in there.  As for your 5 year old, kids are pretty adaptable.  It will be okay.  Teenagers......who knows what they are thinking!!