The Adventures of BooBerry

Mind Wonderings of an Adoptive Mom-To-Be

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My husband has a BIG Mouth!  Last week I went to the doctor for a wrist injury and asked about some pimples on my shoulder.  They won't heal or go away.  A friend who is a nurse said she thought it might be an allergic reaction to something.  So I asked my doctor to check it out.

He thought it was probably nothing and gave me cream with steroid in it but he was concerned about one spot.  Thought if the cream doesn't help that then we would need to biopsy to make sure it wasn't cancer.

I come home and tell my hubby and we decide I should get a second opinion from someone other then our family practicioner.  So we make arrangements for me to see a dermatologist, but he is so booked I can't be seen until the end of the month.

So, I've been using the creme and it seems to be clearing things up but I still want to have the second opinion.

We discussed if we should tell our family anything yet, and I tell him no not until we know something for sure.  But my husband has a BIG mouth.  He told his parents and an old co-worker he is friends with.

I'm thinking, what don't you get about not saying anyting until there is something to say?  Just irks the heck out of me when he does stupid stuff like this. 

So now I'm dreading having Easter down at his folks house.  There will be tons of questions and then other family members will know (if they don't already). 

I just want to smack him.

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Apr. 11, 2009 at 9:25 AM

Go ahead, smack him!  Just be sure and post pics. later. LOL I hope that your rash is nothing, and it probably isn't if the cream is starting to work.  Just explain to people that it's just like having a pap smear on your shoulder. Sort of like preventive maintenance.  Once you go with a female analogy, people will shut up!

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