Um - REALLY?

[Goddess_Mother]

I have to wonder about some people.  My daughter is going through the ringer right now.  Mind you, some of it is her own fault, but that doesn't make it OK for a 40-something year old woman to bash a 19-year-old girl.  This continues to baffle me.  I guess some people are just idiots.  They haven't the slightest awareness that while they are busy pointing fingers and blaming a KID for making stupid mistakes, there are three fingers pointing right back at them.  And, by the way, WHAT IS YOUR EXCUSE????  I know part of it is because she is my kid and the mama claws are coming out, but the other part just seems like common sense to ME.  I'm sorry but if you are close to twice as old as another person and have 4 kids and have gone through god only know how many relationships/marriages/divorces - do you really have any business whatsoever JUDGING another person???  Especially someone who is just starting out in life and has survived more in her few years thus far on this earth than most????  The girl is lucky to be alive and sane and you people are bashing her for making a relationship mistake????  GET A LIFE! 

[2bPolitician]

Apr. 16, 2009 at 9:55 PM

thats sucks. some people have nothing better to do. i'm 24 and i wouldn't do that to anyone. its not my place. now if i were asked for advice then i would be as helpful and compassionate as possible.

its not your mama claws either. this had me ready to tear someone a new one too. its sad people are so blind due to their own ignorance.

i hope your daughter is ok. i've been through all sorts of ringers when it comes to relationships, abuse(emotional, mental, physical) abandonment, almost divorced twice(still married to my DH of 3 yrs we've had to fight to stay together), you name it i've been there...