Changes; Seeking some avice

[allykittee1994]

As i sit here right now so many things are going through my mind.   Im not sure what to do or if im doing the right thing.  My story is a long one .  I getting ready to move out of my house of ten years leave a misserable marriage behind and my house.  I can deal without the house i think i just hope im doint the right thing.  If i new he would move out i would let him leave. He is always unkind we never talk and he thinks about himself constanly.  I just want him to listen to what i have to say though he never takes anything i say seriously. He is always belittiling me .  Calling me names in front of my kids and all we do is fight.  I know i need to leave have fought for years but its the hardest thing i have to do.  I know i need to move on and make myself happy.  Yet at the same time im worried about how much its going to hurt me the kids and him.  I dont know if anyone understand unless you have been through it as i hope whoever reads this has.  I have to make a change today.  I know it will be hard and there is so much to loose including my credit the house and a car.  Am i willing to sacrifice all this for happiness i hope so.  Or will i stay and be misserable some more.  Just so i dont hurt anyone.  Yet a little each day im dying insdide myseld.  I have lost my self worth.  He has told me many times im stupis and horible names i cant even repeat.  I think the only time he is happy is when he is making my life misserable.  Well i hope someone can give some advice

[marzbar]

Apr. 18, 2009 at 12:56 AM

(((HUGS)))  I have never been through this situation but no one deserves to be treated like crap.  You and your children deserve happiness.  I was belittled growing up and it stays with you forever.  Do what you need to do to protect your children.

Believe in yourself!  You can do this!!!