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WTF!!!
What part of kindness and equality does she not understand?
Who the hell does she think she is to criticize, degrade, judge, demean, humiliate, disgrace and insult another human being? It's bad enough she was so rude to an adult, but to the children, too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think I'm still in shock that anyone is really that ignorant!
What the hell gives her reason to believe that she is superior to anyone else? OH, and not only did she "believe" that she's better than everyone else (including her husband and children) - she actually SAID she was!!! How sad is that?
OMG! I am loosing it!
Okay, now I guess I'm stooping down to her level of ignorance by judging her, but...............
c'mon...................
NO ONE deserves the rude, insolent behavior she displayed toward another human being! NO ONE, I tell ya.
I am furious!
Normally, I am quite accepting and understanding of others. But, this is one pompous bitch, who has simply rattled my cage!
Am I now judging her? Am I now being critical of her? Oh, hell yes, I am! Do I feel bad for that? Of course I do. But, I am NOT perfect - not at all.
If you watched Wife Swap tonight, then you know exactly who I'm speaking of.
She is a royal asshole! And, that's putting it quite mildly.
And, now that I've released all this anger, which I developed for this one woman in just one hour, I'm beginning to feel guilty. Shall I really post this? Oh, hell yes, I'll post it. I haven't felt this much rage for years - not since I was with my ex-husband!
But, I do still feel guilty for allowing myself to judge her, just as she judged and criticized others.
Her hideous behavior toward the family she swapped with - the family whose home she shared during the swap - was just simply unjustified.
The first evening at the dinner table, the other family held hands and went around the table, taking turns talking about what they were grateful for (I really loved that part!). Then this idiot woman had the nerve to say (it went something like this) "I don't know why they would do that ritual at the dinner table. They are so poor, how could they have anything to be grateful for?" (You KNOW that pissed me off - you KNOW I believe everyone has so much for which to be grateful.)
I'll tell ya one thing - I'm eternally grateful that I am NOT her!
Has she not heard one of my favorite quotes: "It is not happiness that makes us grateful, but it's gratitude that makes us happy" - has she never heard that?
I was fairly certain that, by the end of the show, she would calm down a bit and be understanding and compassionate. But, NO, NOT her! She continued her display of offensiveness and disrespect right up until the very last second!
She made a total ass of herself. hahahaha - Even at the table meeting at the end, her husband even told her that! haha
Just simply unbelievable!
If you missed it, be glad you did. I'm embarrassed to admit I belong to the human race, just knowing she's a part of it. Or, maybe - just maybe - she's a freak from another planet!
Okay, so there's usually a little bickering and disagreements on Wife Swap, but this went way beyond that. She actually said that she was better than this other family, who she looked down upon. OOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooo! I can't even repeat all the crap that came out of her mouth. It's just so upsetting. Thank God for her that the other husband and his daughters were considerate and patient and handled her jabs with class.
Oh, and a crazy part of this is that she thought she was beautiful! HA - she was ugly, and her ugliness progressed as the show went on. Her personality caused her to look grotesque!
As I said, I normally have compassion for people like this. I've always believed that when someone is critical and rude to others, it's because they are really very insecure within themselves. It's sad, but there are people who feel the need to put others down, in order to build themselves up. Very very very sad.
I think she needs a lot of love and compassion. If I knew how to find her, I'd make her a Love Jar.
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NO, I don't think I could bring myself to do that. I'm so upset to think of the way she treated that other family! I just want to cry. I think this is the first time in my life I've not been able to find anything good about a person. She has changed my mind about something I used to believe - that everyone has good deep inside of them. She has proven that statement wrong.
With some, ya just have to dig a lot deeper. But, with her, you cannot dig deep enough - good just simply does NOT exsist within her.
Gosh, I wonder if she's a member here on Cafe Mom????
Actually I hope she is!!! And, I hope she reads this!!! And, I hope she realizes what an ass she is.
Wouldn't it be amazing if she realized the true meaning of life, family, love and friendship? I can only hope and pray that she "gets it" one day - and before it's too late. It saddens me to think that anyone (even her) would go through life like that.
P.S. If you're still here - if you've actually hung in this long and read my entire vent, then............ thank you for listening to me rant.
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LOL!! Here's a few hundred people that agree with you!!! Okay, bed NOW!
Oh god Ginny, what a story. wish I could have seen the show or maybe not I would have been pissed off. True though I know someone who is exacyly the same way and she is a " B " sad to say I know of this person. Thank god I don't work with her anymore.your funny ginny and you have a great spirit.
Hey, Linda, thanx for the link! Quite interesting! Did you see her on the local TV news?
Maybe a less stressful form of entertainment would be advisable :). Love you.
Stay inspired!
I didnt see that!!! I am glad I did.She sounds so rude and seems to be a horrible person!
I thank God i didn't see it..sometimes I watch that show...and some of them woman I want to punch through the TV they are just like her... thats why I don't watch that show anymore... I just saw her on the news a few minutes ago and I wanted to slap her silly..and she was only on a few seconds... ugh!!
Love you...
Ok wow I just glanced through a FEW of the posts concerning her and was floored. The fact that she was a paychiatric nurse is really scary... From the descriptions of her she needs to be a patient there not working in it. If she elicited this kind of response fromyou Ginny I am sure I am glad I did not watch the show. People like that need someone to slap the snot right out of them... See I was all ready to go off on someone for making you this mad. .. ready to forget I was saved for a brief moment or two and go lay hands on someone and not in a christian like way ... Can you imagine how her children must feel about themselves if she is so self centered and egotistical. Makes ya wonder what her place of employment is thinking about her now cause I know if my family member ws needing mental help I would not want an individual like her around them. Apparently someone needs to teach her to use that space in between her ears for more then an air filled ego inflater..
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Dang...I miss all the "good" stuff...wish I could have seen it...just so I could vent with you! But, I think I heard enough to understand! I'm glad you have "here" to vent. :-) Okay...now I am off to bed laughing, yep...despite this awful woman and that she made you angry, grrrr, B*tch! She shouldn't mess with "our" Ginny! Bad Karma to follow! But, laughing...because of THIS....(I love ALL your posts)!
I'll tell ya one thing - I'm eternally grateful that I am NOT her! (giggle)
- Lb128f
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