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Need Prayers for a new mother of quads (update april 21st)
- Apr 20, 2009 at 9:10 PM
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Please don't bash this girl. She is a very nice girl in a crazy situation. She has heard about it from everyone else already.
Ok...
My
sister's friend who just turned 14 like a couple weeks ago was
pregnant. Her and her boyfriend got pregnant at 13 (I know I know)
anyway...once she told him she was pregnant and his family found out
his mom freaked out and moved his family to New York and now she will
not let him talk to her.We live in Arizona. His mom refuses to believe
the babies are his. He keeps telling his mom that the babies are his.
But he is 17 and can't do anything right now.
She found out she was having triplets! She was going to a special school program down here which my sister is also in. It is mainly for teenage parents but since my sister missed a lot of school for health issues she is going there too.
This girl (the pregnant one) lost all her friends. Her family disowned her except her mom. It is scarey enough at 14 to be having one let alone triplets. Last week at her doctors appointment they heard another heartbeat. But they were not sure.
Friday night she was going in pre-term labor. She has been in the hospital on bedrest since then cause she was dialating. Today they did an u/s to see if there was a 4th baby. They pushed and moved and yep 4th one was found.
They let her go walking today for 30 minutes. While doing this her water broke. She was only 24 or 25 weeks. The babies were born today. And now she is a 14 year old mother to 4.
Her babies are Dalas 1 lb 9 oz, Austin 1 lb 7 1/2 oz, Leanne 1 lb 4 oz, and the 'surprise' baby Marie 1lb 1 oz.
They all came out crying except the smallest one but soon after was and right now are in the NICU. They are very small and weak. But they are at one of the best high risk hosptials here and when she is released the babies will be moved to Phoenix Children's.
Please pray for her. It is hard enough being a mother young, but this...it is just crazy. She wasn't planning a baby or anything like that she wasn't taking any fertility treatments. The boys are identical and so are the girls. So it was twins that split.
Her mom won't let any one see her just in case the babies health turns bad so she is all alone in this right now with her mom.
Please don't bash this girl. She has lost everything family and friends because she didn't believe in abortion and made the adult decision to take responsibility for her actions.
Please vote popular she needs all the thoughts and prayers that she can get.
::UPDATE::
Here are some pictures she sent us just now. Sorry
that they are so small but they are cell phone pictures. She has not
seen them since they did the c-section this afternoon. She got to touch
each one for a brief second and that was it. She was told the boys have
a 60% chance right now of survival. The girls have a 45% chance.
Baby B this is Austin Carter he was 1lb 7 1/2 oz
Baby A this is Dalas Dakota he was 1 lbs 9 oz
This is showing how little his (Dalas) feet are
Baby C this is Leanna Hope she was 1lb 4oz
Baby D (the hidden one) this is Marie Faith she was 1lb 1oz
::UPDATE::(April 21st)
I have had to delete some posts and comments. If you don't believe it fine, but I'm not asking for stupidity I'm asking for prayers. I'm glad they were as big as they were. And for the person saying 'I should ask my sister how she knows this peson' I PERSONALLY KNOW THIS PERSON! I have seen her and her HUGE belly. I'm sorry you can't believe that there are crazy things out there and I agree there are fake people out there, but just because a story is crazy don't come starting stuff. At least I am not like some people asking for stuff...I have not asked for money or anything but prayers.
Here is the update for today
Ok...so since I had a lot of replies asking for updates I decided to update about them.
1st- Yes, we are in the Phoenix area, and no it is not on the news. The ONLY people that know the babies were born is my house, her and her mom and well you all. I don't think they have said anything to the rest of the family.
2nd- Someone said about community programs helping
(something like that) she has had some places donate a bunch of stuff
to her. She has clothes all the way to 5T and cribs, car seats and that
stuff. Well, she has 3 because they didn't know there was a 4th till
yesterday right before they were born but the place that gave the
donations are giving her a 4th set.
We were told they had a not so good night last night. Austin and Leanne's survival chance dropped to 20% and Dalas and Marie's was 40%. As of right now (7pm) they are about the same (the mom's words)
Around 1:45pm Austin had to have heart surgery. His heart was not closed all the way. My sister was at work and we didn't hear about this until 3pm. We have sat around waiting since then and he just got out around 6:45pm.
They are trying to stabalize him right now. All the stress on him is not good.
We are hoping tomorrow will bring good news.
She did finally get to see the babies and touch them today.
I will update as I get more information.
Comments:
She will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Oh my goodness. She and her babies are definitely in my thoughts.
Did someone seriously bash her? Thats real mature ugh! She will be in my prayers along with her babies.
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prayers for a stronger health. I hope the little ones make it. God Bless them!
I hope they will all be okay...now they can do an DNA and hopefully she can re-connect with the Dad. She needs support (emotionally) right now.
Angels put your arms around this young family and keep them all safe.
God bless them. I certainly won't bash... I could have been in that same situation at that age (as many of us could) and I respect her for taking responsibility and giving those little ones a chance at life. I hope they call come out very healthy. And God Bless all of those in your area who have helped her and donated to her... that is so wonderful. I hope and pray that all those babies get healthy quick and that the father is able to be reunited with them!
aww congrats to her...and blessings to the little ones
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