WoW!

  So many of you have wrote to either support my abuse story or to show me that I am not alone by sharing one of your stories.  It has deeply touched my heart that not only so many of us have gone through this but that we have survived!  You all have encouraged and inspired me in so many ways.
  I cried while reading many of your stories.  I wish I could give all of you a big (((( HUG )))) and tell you thank-you individually in person! 

  I am so warmed by all the compassion I have received.  All of this has inspired me to do more with this.  This shouldn't be just left on here, the internet, the way it is.  We need to move this message even further!  And I really would love to hear more from all of you.  Here's what I want to do...

  I want to write my whole story of abuse with my ex-husband and put it in a book also in it I would like to include a chapter of stories about abuse that other women have went through.  I'd like to use Cafemom as a resource to do this. 

  All of the stories would be anonymous unless the writer wishes to give me permission to use their name.  I want all women to know that they have nothing to fear by contacting me and sharing with me. 
  I understand how scary talking about it can be. And unfortunately at times, how dangerous.  Please keep that in the back of your mind if you decide to help me.  That's why I am saying you can remain anonymous.

  Even if they don't want their stories used in the (hopefully!) book, that they can relate and confide in me.  Women who are still in abusive relationships are also encouraged to contact me for support and love.  I won't judge anyone for their reasons for anything.  If you are in an abusive relationship and want to be a part of the book but want to remain anonymous that is totally fine.

  If you didn't go through abuse with a significant other and you lived in an abusive home as a child I wish to hear from you too!  That will be part of my book, how growing up in abusive home shapes who we become.  What we learn as a child molds us into who we become as adults.  As always you need not include your name to be part of this book.

  Please message me on here and let me know if you'd like to contribute. 
  I am grateful for any help I get!  This could be sooo BIG!  We can help others and grow as people by doing this.  Imagine how great it would feel to know that somebody in an abusive relationship picked up the book and read it...decided that enough was enough and LEFT!  Imagine that person's life was saved by US!  We can do it!  We can make that happen.  I for one can't sit by idoly anymore and keep my story inside.  It's too much for me to take.  The nightmares, the panic attacks, fear of going in public places at times because I don't know who's there watching me.  The thought that I would never have somebody better than Scott, because that's what he told me.  That I would NEVER amount to anything.
  I'll show him I'll amount to something! 
  Let's do this!

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