I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral of his friend.
He
referred to the dates on her tombstone from the beginning to the end.
He
noted that first came her date of birth and spoke the following date with
tears,
But he said what mattered most of all was the dash between those
years.
For that dash represents all the time she spent alive on earth,
And now
only those who loved her know what that little line is worth.
For it matters
not how much we own – the cars, the house, the cash –
What matters is how we
live and love and how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard – are there things you’d like to
change?
For you never know how much time is left that can still be
rearranged.
If we could just slow down long enough to consider what’s true
and real,
And always try to understand the way other people feel.
And be less quick to anger and show appreciation more,
And love the people
in our lives like we’ve never loved before.
If we treat each other with
respect and more often wear a smile,
Remembering that this special dash might
only last a little while.
So when your eulogy’s been read with your life’s actions to rehash,
Would
you be proud of the things they say about how you spent your dash?
This is Lisa reminding you that character counts.
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