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FROM MY BLOG: whatwouldmamasay.blogspot.com


What can Mama say? Mama can say shame on Goober-nor Brad Henry for considering clemency for this monster. Donald Gilson was convicted of murdering his eight year old "step-son" Shane Coffman in the late 90s.

First let Mama clarify this post. If Mama had her druthers Shane's mama, Bertha Jean Coffman, would have gotten the death penalty, too. She received life in prison with no chance of parole. The story varies as to whether she or Gilson beat that poor child to death. Either way - she knew and should have gotten Shane out of that place.

Second Mama says shame on DHS in Oklahoma. DHS removed the Coffman children many times prior to Shane's death. Mama understands that DHS is an administrative agency and as such they can bend their rules and define words as they see fit. As far as Mama is concerned - they should be be held partially responsible for Shane's death and for the near starvation of his brothers and sisters.

Let Mama give you the short story and then Mama will tell you what she thinks.

Bertha Coffman and her several children lived in Newalla, OK in a two bed room trailer. One boyfriend that was living there sexually abused someone. DHS got involved and removed the kids (from what I've researched - this was not the first time). Coffman met Gilson when they both worked for Little Axe Schools as janitors.

Gilson physically removed the boyfriend from Coffman's property. Well, the trailer was a pit. Gilson got it back in semi-livable order and DHS gave Coffman back her children. Gilson moves in. Shortly thereafter they all walked out of Coffman's trailer and moved in to Gilson's two bedroom trailer. All the children slept in the living room floor. One bedroom was for Gilson and Coffman. The other bedroom was reserved for Gilson's leather working supplies.

Coffman pulled the children out of school and "homeschooled" them. At the end of it all - no evidence was ever found that the children were homeschooled. The children were not allowed to go outside. They were punished in many ways. They were beaten, they were forced to take cold baths, and they were forced to stand completely still against the wall. At the end of it all, once Shane's body was found, two or three of his siblings were found malnourished and practically starved to death.

One day, eight year old Shane gets in trouble and is made to stand against the wall. He stands so long and is not allowed to move to even go to the bathroom. At some point, he urinates. Gilson allegedly took the boy outside and beat him with a board. He brought him in and put him in a cold bath where they struggle. The other children are made to go in to the bathroom to tell Shane what a bad boy he was. Eventually Shane is beaten to death in that bathroom. He is left in there until the other children fall asleep. At that point Coffman and Gilson took him out and put him in an unused deep freezer outside the trailer.

Of course Gilson argued that Coffman beat the boy to death and Coffman argued that it was all Gilson and that she asked Gilson to get help and that Gilson refused.

Shane's body is found six months later in the freezer. Gilson and Coffman are arrested.

If you go here you can read more about the disgusting and disheartening death of that sweet, sweet boy. You can also read the appeal.

Gilson was given the death penalty and recently received the date of May 5. Mama and She of Unlimited Opinion joyously dubbed that day as Cinqo de Fryo even though Oklahoma uses lethal injection. The site listed above has Gilson's appeal. Please, have tissues handy. It doesn't matter who killed the boy you will cry. Gilson appealed for clemency.

Goober-nor Henry has given him an additional week in order to consider the appeal.

Mama wrote to Goober-nor Henry and begged him not to give that monster clemency.

We are talking about a man that didn't even have the respect to put Shane into a shallow grave (not that it would have made the crime better). The boy was put in an unused deep freeze. He had numerous injuries including a broken jaw that the coroner estimates happened around the time of Shane's death.

A grown man took a 50 pound 8 year old and beat him with a board and beat him in a bath tub until he died. His mother did nothing or may have participated in the beating.

Mama told Goober-nor Henry that someone has to stand up for this little boy. Someone needs to be the protective parent. Gilson used his appeals, now please let justice be carried out. He had no concern for Shane. Why should we have concern for his life? This wasn't some bar fight. This was a vicious attack on a child. In Louisiana one can get the death penalty for raping a child. Are we so callous that we will not demand justice for the death of a baby?

Who will mourn for Shane Coffman? Mama cried for him for more than an hour after reading it. Shane was only about six years younger than Mama. Who will demand justice be carried out?

Oklahoma residents, Oklahoma parents, and parents everywhere please read up on this case and email Goober-nor Henry and tell him that he should not give Gilson clemency. It would be a slap in the face for Shane and Oklahoma to allow that monster to live when Shane never got the chance.

Please, stand up and be the parent Shane Coffman did not have. Advocate for justice!

If Gilson receives clemency this sends a message to other abusive adults that they could kill a child and not be charged with their own lives.

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Cryst...
Apr. 26, 2009 at 9:33 AM

After my stomach settled from what I read, I sent a message to "Goober-nor Henry".  Thank you for posting this.

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paral...
Apr. 26, 2009 at 11:17 AM

Thank you, Crystal, for standing up for Shane.

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Lb128f
Apr. 26, 2009 at 5:44 PM

Awful.

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twins...
Apr. 27, 2009 at 8:28 AM

I don't live in Oklahoma, but I hope that those that do SCREAM so loud a this injustice that the Goober-nor can't but hear!!!

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Katie911
Apr. 27, 2009 at 9:11 AM

I agree with This Mama.... The mother should be put to death too!  I would not way in hell stand by and watch as some ass beats my child to death.  The first smack I would be calling cops, pulling him off, shooting him, whatever it took.  This man needs to fry and she should too. 

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proud...
Apr. 27, 2009 at 10:43 AM

 this is so disturbing!   those poor babies! 

 i think they should BOTH be sentenced to 200 years of isolation, with the exception of regular beatings by someone in the jail house...  they could take turns letting inmates in for all i care.

 there is no way for justice here.  there just isn't.  for the sake of those kids, i will hope there is a god and there is a hell and that they will both find hell soon.

 the only blessing is that the other kids are okay now (though traumatized for life) and that that poor baby is in the arms of the angels now.... he is finally loved.

 it's so sad.  

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EiEiO
Apr. 27, 2009 at 10:59 AM

!!!!  Right on!!

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Momto...
Apr. 27, 2009 at 1:34 PM

This Sapulpa Okie sent an email to Brad Henry. God bless little Shane.

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Brook...
Apr. 27, 2009 at 2:08 PM

What a horrible man AND woman! I sent my email!

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paral...
Apr. 27, 2009 at 9:22 PM

Thanks for those that sent an email!!  I encourage those, even if you don't live here, to please email the Goober-nor.  All parents should be outraged. 

Thank you ALL for your support on this issue.  Thank you ALL for thinking of little Shane and his memory instead of wanting to spare the life of a baby killer.

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