not again to my side of the family

[mommything03]

well i just found out that because of all the stress my stepsister put on my step mom, she has lost her baby.  i don't even know what the baby was.  she was due 3 days after me.  and i feel like i am at a loss, because i don't want to hurt her by going to see her.  they were going to do a c-section, but before they could get the room or even get her preped the baby's heart stopped.  they are making her do it natural now since they can not save the little one.  i want to see her but i don't want to hurt her.  waaaaaaaaaa!!!!!! i wish i could do something.

[Gram12of15]

Apr. 26, 2009 at 1:43 PM

Be there for her with the realization that she will grieve in her own way.  Knowing she has the love & support of her family will help her in the long run.

[codysmama2609]

Apr. 26, 2009 at 3:14 PM Oh :( how sad, im sorry.
i do agree with Gram.
She will be thankful that you were there to support and love her.
even tho i told people i didnt want a lot of visitors after what happened with us, i wish more people would have come over to be with us. i didnt know what i was thinking at the time.