I'm so lonely

[Mom2_2Boys]

I have two sisters that do not get along at all. One of them likes to tell my mom everyone else's business, the other one just went through a terrible divorce and is dating someone that my mom and my sister des not approve of. He is 29 and she is 45, and "supposidly" won't get a job.

  3 weeks ago, my niece, the daughter of my divorced sister got married. She put a picture of herself on myspace in her wedding dress and she made it look like she was the bride of Frankenstein, with blood and cuts on her, just to be funny, thats just how she is. It was a bad pic of her so she just did that. In passing I told my sister that my mom thought that was dumb. Well my niece got mad and got into an argument with my other sister and then my mom got mad at me for telling my sister. Because of this, my mom told me that unless I apologize for telling her then she's through with me.  My mother is very dramatic and in everyones business all the time. She tries to run my life all the time and always putting everyone down. Well I told her bye and hung up. I just couldn't believe she would just end our relationship because of this. (even though she has gone years not talking to relatives before because of stupid things.) I just feel really sad right now. I guess I never realized how much I really talked to my mom. My husband is my best friend. My closest girlfriends are my husbands sisters. I do have other friends but we are at different points in our life. Most of them are single or do not have kids. I wish I knew what to do.

[momof2girls05]

May. 3, 2009 at 10:23 AM

I'm sorry.  Sounds like a rough spot to be in.  Wish I had some advice for you, but I kind of agree with you.  I hope it all works out.  Sounds like another "drama" family, like mine.

[rose1239]

Jun. 29, 2009 at 8:05 AM

Hi I knw how you feel I have one good friend. she is a single mom.. but in my area I have no women.. everyone is either in their own little world.. or dont want to get together.. I love to go for walks, or go have lunch out but nobody asked me.. ever.

I lost my mom, and best friend.. so I dont have that closeness thats why I find.. dont depend on peoplethey will let you down thats what I learned... talk to your hubby, or kids try to focus on what you do have. and I met alot of women in the park... and go up and talk to them.. and find alot of friendly women there. but i know how you feel.. I get lonely too esp when hubby goes to work and I Have nobody to talk to.. growing up I never was like this always had tons of friends. can you give me some ideas?? Trish